Re: query about non-stick pans
your not supposed to use metal spoons or metal flippers/stirrers, they scratch off the non-stick coating. You must use a plastic heat resistant one.
Anyway to your point on ill effects:
source: http://www.choice.com.au/viewArticle.aspx?id=104488&catId=100447&tid=100008&p=1&title=Test:+Non-stick+frypans+(archived)