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haha… did you check your back pocket? 
well, if she was back there, she would be squished by now
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bro i dont like putting things in my back pocket for the very same reason you just said, but we re talking about my sister so she definately wont be there. 
like i said mate, shes probably busy man unlike us useless ppl we got nothing to do. but i think she came a lil while ago and made a reply to a couple of threads but went again.
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yeah she did, and she replied to my pm, but she is gone agian :(… i think i will post a thread in the cafe for her
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nah dont do that, we ll know when shes here:halo:
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ok
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Assalam Alaikom Aishah...Oh bless your heart. You know your size is no problem...
Let me tell you something someone once said to me (long before I was a muslim)
"If I didn't know you I would never spoken to you because beautiful women r meant to b *****es...and you r never unkind or treat me like I'm nobody. "
another friend female this time said
"you are so lucky, men just chase you...you don't have to do anything..."
my reply to the first was... 'beauty is fickle it fades over time and I had nothing to do with it
my reply to the second (who I personally thought had the most gprgeous bone structure and lovely eyes) was trouble is when men r attracted by what the eye can see they don't really care about anything else...beauty can de-value you as a person.
nowadays... i am older have gained too much weight and am appreciated for different things (or not), but am forever being told "you know if you just lost a little weight and took off your hijab you'd have it all..."
I think itis pretty sad that women r under sooo much pressure to be 'beautiful'-
what really counts is the beauty that is within, u seem very beautiful...and where it counts.
I am sure that when you marry (or if you are) it will be successful, because irrespective of age or size...your beauty will never fade.
Don't be so harsh on yourself!
Assalam Alaikom from Ibrar's wife:)
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Ppl i appreciate replying to this thread, but the issue here in question was someone lieing and they have admitted their mistake, and the issue is NOT about ppl being overweight.
so plz can u ppl stck to the actual issue. no one is saying that size or especially beauty is a problem, what the problem here is that we cant have ppl lieing, thats it.
and in relation to this thread. this person accepted their mistake and has now appologised and this is a lesson for all of us. 'Not to lie because the consequences can be Harsh'
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yup
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fbi, like my new sig
there we go
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god its being stupid
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wmc: posting more than three is calle flooding and this will earn u warning points i believe, si be careful. coz u ve done 4 in a row here lol.
yeh i lig ur sig, but mine is still better :-)
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FBI786...the lie came after the insecurity with the weight....honestly...men!
Of course lying is a problem...eerrrrrrrrr.........especially in Pakistan........no offense but couldn't help noticing that the cost of goods dramatically increased for me! hehehe! So could I please have a public apology too????
Only kidding.
But truly...u need insight to realise that the lie was felt necessary at the time because of the insecurity! Not trying to reassure you...just instill some essential truths and coping skills.....
Salam brother
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aww Aisha .. thats soo sweet of u. I never had anything against you to begin with but just to make you feel comfortable .. Yes I forgive you too 
Yes, after seeing ur pic I think you r very innocent kind a kid . . . u don’t seem the way u presented urself on GS. So, to keep that innocence betta, have ur act straighten out too. Looks ka kiya hai .. its fades away .. ppl wont remember u by how u looked but will remember how u reacted. Remember strong postive personality is a key to win everyone’s heart.
I hope you understand now and add in all my advices ( 
) and try to act on em 
Now .. since Pir Jee asked .. do u also wana confess anything about gettin married or having that cancer? Not tryin to put u on spot but I am sure ppl do want to know the truth ..be brave and let it out
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no that cancer thing was true, i was not lying about that it was just the picture. and thanks EMM
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so whats this cancer thing, i dont know, can u explain what the whole ordeal is, coz if its true then we ll have to tell ppl its true !
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umm leave it fbi i dont wanna explain about the cancer maybe i will in pm
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if u got something to say , say it in public now is ur time, pm makes it more contaversial , meaning that you have something to hide, so ssay it in public plz
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well what i wanna say is that the cancer thing is true thats it. nothing to hide etc.
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thank you, how hard was that !!!!