K4plan....just cuz u dont believe in them....no need to tell everyone else to stop dreaming or call them stupid. Dreams and hopes are what life is all about.....and alot of times dreams do come true (off course thats if you actually believe in them). I did believe in prince charming and I found mine....and im the happiest girl in the world :)
Dream on, dream on to be successful individuals, dream to be a good Muslim a good human and don't dream of extremely pathetic stuff which really doesn't have much to do with reality at all and then sit around waiting for your dream to come true. Sure dream to become successful, thats something youu can work hard on to pursue such a rewarding gain/accomplishment. Where will a pathetic stupid dream of prince charming lead you? Actually I'm sure it is a nasty excuse for women to sit around and have the petty excuse of being a woman to expect all but give nuthing to life.
Smart girls don't dream for prince charmings, because prince charming waits for the girl ;). She looks ahead and makes something out of her life, thats when a dreams are perequisite to the motivating, yearning desire for life full of advancements.
What may be prince charming to one might be a piece of trash to another. As long as you learn to accept the good and bad points of the person. It's all good.
Smart girls don't dream for prince charmings, because prince charming waits for the girl ;). She looks ahead and makes something out of her life, thats when a dreams are perequisite to the motivating, yearning desire for life full of advancements.
Masha-allah, I have made alot out of my life thanks to Allah. I have a great career, go to one of the top universities in this country, a degree with a guaranteed job at the end of it (insha-allah)....a top paying job, a nice family, im quiet popular, had top positions of responsibility many times...i.e. head/president etc....have had nice cars...live in a nice big house, I have respect within my community .however, all these things (except family) are MATERIALISTIC and bring no happiness UNLESS you have someone special to share them with. the day I met him, my biggest dream came true and I dont want anything else in life (since I had everything else already even before I met him)
as long as he is kind and honest, educated and clean.
speaks my language, is fore-caring and sensitive, sophisticated humorous, optimistic and open minded.
I used to sub-consciously believe in this concept but I dunno anymore. I have this feeling that once you reach a certain point in your life where you can financially support a spouse, marriage is an inevitability. The first girl who looks decent, has good turbiat, respects elders is the one who we get married to. I hope I'm wrong about this and that there are stories out there of "Prince Charming" and "Dream Girl" concepts becoming realities, but I'm more of a pessimist on this idea.
( Career/guaranteed job etc. )
