Money is a means to lead your life but it is not an end in itself. I was saying this. Later on I have explained that basic needs are important over luxuries. I am not exaggerating, today even mothers like those sons who earn and give the money to them. This is the thing I am pointing out which will result in the emergence of same problems today faced by the west. Humans are intelligent beings. We must learn from others.
Do you see and observe the society my friend. As you claim to be inside this society by stating that I am seeing the problem from the outside and also exaggerating. Our ancestors didn’t listen to their elders and tried to follow the west while failed badly. They can’t be called neither eastern nor western. It is the responsiblity of parents to make their children capable of earning while they reach the age of 18 atleast. So that they can have a family. Do you observe today that the divorce rate has increased . Do you observe that even married people are having un marital sex? Do you observe the things we don’t want to accept because it goes against our honor. This hyposcrisy , defectiveness and identity crisis are the results of the actions I have pointed out above and in the previous posts.
It is a small , a very small thinking, that I don’t buy a car to reach my destination quickly but to show others that I have a car. It is absurd that even coming to the postiion of President and Prime Ministers , people think that they are to make estates for their families and children while they all come from the elite. This is a shame that despite of openeing our eyes we are sleeping more deeply . As if this country will not be destroyed ever and as if miracles will happen while our actions are wrong. Are we free from the laws of the world which apply to other nations. Are we supe humanbeings that we will be saved even if we don’t change our ways. So much so, I have seen people taking loans for having expensive marriages. I am from the middle class and I beleive that I will spend not more than 3 lac on my marriage while my maternal uncle who is far more poorer and is a villager has taken a loan of 8 lacs for his wedding function. what rediculous **** it is. I have seen people from my own eyes for taking loans for enjoying Basant.