I totally agree this day and age its all about the money. It’s not just how much you got but how much of it you have spent on glitter and glamour. Is your home 4 or 8 bedrooms. Are you sure you have a decent car? Im sorry but your not marrying my daughter as your house is far too small. These are criminal comments I have heard in the past.
The best human beings on earth used to say what do you have to give to your spouse in marriage? They replied oh nothing prophet of Allah. Do you know some Quran ayah? Yes they said give that Allah Akbar.
Its like day and night nowadays! We need to return to divine thinking and turn away from media onslaught.