Poison of a Materialistic Society

man thats so harsh, its sad that. the prophet SAW , said (parapharasing)that dont look for beauty, as that may destroy you. Looks are not everfin. i know im getting off topic and this might tick some ppl off so, plz try to understand where im coming from.

How is it fair, when MOST, if not all guys fliping mess around, before marriage and are not shareef or decent but want to MARRY DECENT and SHAREEF gals, and somehow even get them.
whereas alot of gals stay way from the haram but have to settle with normal guys, who aint decent or religious. And on top of that gals get rejected for looking a certain way. What on earth is going on? Im sorry guys, this society is totally unfair, maybe its just our culture, islam however is equal, but i feel most men can do wateva and get everfin whereas most gals, dont get what they want.
Sorry but that really annoying (*btw i aint saying all guys are bad, just 90 % of em, and ok not all gals r shareef, plz keep that in mind)