No.
First of all you are not a representative of people of J&K. They elected representatives by due process and which by itself is ample evidence that they are fine with being in India.
Secondly, I am surprised that I don’t hear from you any condemnation for the cross border terrorism that Pakistan followed as a strategy to create chaos in J&K. As a self-professed representative of J&K, what is you stand on that?
The military has indeed practiced excesses in response to the attacks on them and their families. And India is punishing them for that, which I admit does not make it right by itself. That is why positive measures such as the roadways, railways, trade etc should be encouraged by you, not scorned at.
that is, if you have the interests of the people of J&K at heart as you claim, as opposed to that of the cheerleaders for Pakistan.
Here is some food for thought:
http://www.southasiaanalysis.org/\papers9\paper854.html
Does Pakistan care for Kashmiri Muslims? Dr Zakir Hussain (then Vice Chanellor of Aligarh University and later the President of India) wrote to the UN Representative in 1951(Regarding Pak atrocities in J&K in Oct 47)“It is a strange commentary on political beliefs that the same Muslims of Pakistan who like the Muslims of Kashmir to join them invaded the state in October 1947, killing and plundering Muslims in the state and dishonoring Muslim women, all in the interest of what they described as the liberation of Muslims of the State”. Kanwar Idris writing in “The Dawn (9 Feb 03) says “Last year an army general was asked to resign one day to take over as president of Azad Kashmir the next day. That may not have violated a law but inevitably caused dismay. Pakistan stands for the right of self-determination for all of the people of Kashmir but here even the free and unsuspecting among them were given no say in choosing a leader of their own”. Sultan Shahin (Balwaristan movement) writes; “Pakistan’s refusal to take back dead bodies of Kashmiris killed in Kargil war- had given a powerful fillip to the independence movement in the region. The Balawaris are greatly confused by the pictures of Indian Army and BSF jawans risking their lives to bring the bodies of Pakistani dead soldiers and giving them a proper islamic burial- They are confused because this completely negates all Pakistani propaganda stories about the cruelty, if not total inhumanity of the way Indian security forces conduct themselves in Kashmir”! Pak sponsored militants do not even respect Islam! The Hizbul militants burnt down the last major Sufi shrine Charar-e-Sharif in J&K on May 11, 1995 !