This is less of a question and more of a poll.
Scenario. A girl and guy are friends. Girl insists its platonic. Guy move to a different cities hence they lose contact. Later girl says "He is player". "Trust me He wanted lot more then that."
So what you do you say people is platonic of non platonic. Is it safe to say the girl who calls it platonic, might be delusional?
I would greatly appreciate if every one keep their reply shorter.
She wanted the guy to try harder and he didnt so became a player. Somewhere in this friendship, she picked up the wrong signals...that the guy might be attracted to her and she might have liked him too. But since he didnt do anything...he is now a player.