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Lol! 
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I too wonder about it sometimes. 
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Do you mean not interested, period, or not interested that much? I've seen couples whose marriages resemble great friendships - physical intimacy isn't completely absent, but it's not an overriding concern. They're the happiest couples around. I guess it could work if you have similar libido levels. This issue can be a pickle for those who practice pre-marital abstinence - you might end up with someone who wants it more than you do, or less than you do. I can see the first scenario being particularly traumatic for women.
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right, i thought i was the only one like this. but if the man i’m with says the most horrid stuff about me and my loved ones, does crazy wacko things during these fights, after 4 or 5 of those types of arguments/fights, i can’t even imagine kissing him forget sex, i would feel nothing for him. don’t couples become numb to each other after such fights. i don’t think i’m too sensitive, some things just aren’t going fly with me after awhile. maybe my expectations of a man are too high? respect me and care enough for me to give in once in awhile, compromise is it asking for too much
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I don't think it should be reason for divorce, marriage is not just about being intimate with someone, there's also other important factors make marriage work and successful.
errr....like what?
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are these violent fights or do the two people disrespect each other? i just never understood how couples do that, they have the most horrid fights, doing and saying the most god awful stuff to each other and then having great sex, how is that even possible? do they turn off their minds for that hour or two(yes hopefully it isn't just a few minutes) and go about it like there were no horrible words said to each other. these volatile relationships are always a mystery to me. madonna and guy had that type of relationship but it worked for them i guess.
I think it's a type of fetish.
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yall do realize that there's a thing called "makeup-sex" right?
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oh yeah…
I better shut up before I start giving TMI out.
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sounds like a good scenario for many women....being relieved of their wifely duties..the sexual labor that they have to put in
i dont think any man will be ok with such an arrangement.
I dont know about kind of men, the women on this forum come in contact with in their lives, but most men marry because they desire sex and intimacy. men dont have an agenda.
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lol wifely duties
so in your opinion women don't like/enjoy sex?
and are you a man?
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uzair i think you have a major misconception about women. which women have you been around that have gotten you to think in this way about women.
you seem to generalize everything about men and women. Most of what you say about women is just sooooooo misguided. women enjoy sex some women enjoy it more than some men. it depends on the woman.
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where did i say they dont ENJOY sex ?
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^^what did you mean by the sexual labour women have to put in and if you were saying they enjoy sex just as much men you wouldn't have called it "labor". unless you were talking about something else
and well you only talked about men wanting the sex and intimacy totally excluding the women
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i never said women dont want sex & intimacy.