Pervy men at workplace

[NomiCA]

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PMing other members to beat Nomi up :p

Rather than just come out with a knee-jerk reaction you should back up your claim...

[BarbieCue]

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you know you have to be more specific about the 'harassment' than that.........women feel harassed for no reason....when people are minding their own business.......like if they have to wait in a line....they will try to cut the line and play 'lady card'..and if someone doesn't let them.........she makes a fuss....and then its 'harassment'......

so please describe the details of the harrassment to get a proper response.

Oh please, I'm hardly going to sit here and describe exactly what the khabees laug did. You know exactly what I am talking about but if you want to play the "women are fussy" card, go ahead.

[NomiCA]

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@BarbieCue

Oh please, I’m hardly going to sit here and describe exactly what the khabees laug did. You know exactly what I am talking about but if you want to play the “women are fussy” card, go ahead.

awwwww…remember this??

@BarbieCue

Yayyy getting heated up now, are we?

Gotcha !!!

[BarbieCue]

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lol no you didn’t. It’s the weekend, I’m chillaxed to the max.

[NomiCA]

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@BarbieCue

lol no you didn’t. It’s the weekend, I’m chillaxed to the max.

ohh…really?? uhmm uhmm…i wish you guys could actually chill..

[rizla86]

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@BarbieCue

My mother, my sisters, my cousins, my friends and I, we all have had first hand experience of harrassment in public by retards in Pakistan, not once but many times. I nearly threw a man off of a moving train in 2009. But he just ended up getting chitrol from fellow male passengers. Which goes to show there’s the good and the bad.

Lol. Your fault for getting on a Pakistan train in the first place. What were you riding, non-AC class?

@NomiCA

you know you have to be more specific about the ‘harassment’ than that…women feel harassed for no reason…when people are minding their own business…like if they have to wait in a line…they will try to cut the line and play ‘lady card’..and if someone doesn’t let them…she makes a fuss…and then its ‘harassment’…

Exactly…women love to take unfair advantage of their gender here. You go anywhere from a bank to the passport office and the ‘ladies’ move right up to the front. Even in offices the ladies get away with lesser workload and can get off work 5pm on the dot, no late shifts. Not to mention places like Espresso, where after 7pm only families are allowed in. Single girls are also considered families…lol.

[Guac]

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Forget men in Pakistan.............some Pakistani men are pervy at their workplaces here too............cough gas stations cough and I don't like to judge people but after a recent experience.....its very hard not to.......... it just blows my mind how people can act so unprofessional towards their colleagues, clients and/or customers

[BarbieCue]

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@rizla86

Lol. Your fault for getting on a Pakistan train in the first place. What were you riding, non-AC class?

Yes and that was the last time I ever travelled on a Pakistani train. I’d happily book a rickshaw the next time

As for women taking unfair advantage of their gender, I am completely against that. Get in the queue everyone!!!

[NomiCA]

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waisay i don't really understand what people mean by 'pervy behaviour'......wat is it??

[BarbieCue]

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Well…

1: Poondi behaviour
2: Haram thoughts :nono:
3: Sexual harrassment, verbal or physical.

[NomiCA]

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if somebody don't touch you, or come into your way......is just at a distant....not doing anything to interrupt you........is that pervy too??

[BarbieCue]

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Well if he's just minding his own business, he gets the shareef tag. If he's standing at a distance, staring at you in a way that makes you feel uncomfortable, he gets the perv tag.

[rizla86]

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@BarbieCue

Well…

1: Poondi behaviour
2: Haram thoughts :nono:

These two will happen wherever you go. It’s just that people here don’t know how to do it. I, for example, will never let you catch me staring.

[NomiCA]

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makes you feel uncomfortable, he gets the perv tag.

he is just looking.......you look at stuff all the time.....like looking at walls, fans, tables, cars, weird people etc etc etc...........

[saimab33]

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I dont think it ends in Pakistan, I work in Canada for a cell phone company, and of course the IT department is full of Indian and Pakistani men. There is one in particular who wont stop asking me out to lunch. I am in my mid 20's, and he is clearly close to my fathers age (mid 50's!) and is also married with children (I have seen the pictures on his desk). He will randomly show up at my desk every few days to ask if my "computer" is working ok, and "just to chat"....he is annoying, but not harmful, thats why I havent complained about it. But the ironic thing is, that I work in HR, so the person who handles harassment complaints is......ME!

[NomiCA]

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@saimab33

I dont think it ends in Pakistan, I work in Canada for a cell phone company, and of course the IT department is full of Indian and Pakistani men. There is one in particular who wont stop asking me out to lunch. I am in my mid 20’s, and he is clearly close to my fathers age (mid 50’s!) and is also married with children (I have seen the pictures on his desk). He will randomly show up at my desk every few days to ask if my “computer” is working ok, and “just to chat”…he is annoying, but not harmful, thats why I havent complained about it. But the ironic thing is, that I work in HR, so the person who handles harassment complaints is…ME!

he is just some ‘uncle’ being friendly…why do u think everyone is hitting on you and if u don’t like him asking you on a dinner…tell him…please don’t do that…whats so difficult in doing that

[saimab33]

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@NomiCA

he is just some ‘uncle’ being friendly…why do u think everyone is hitting on you and if u don’t like him asking you on a dinner…tell him…please don’t do that…whats so difficult in doing that

there is “uncle friendly” and then there is “perv friendly”. He is clearly “perv friendly”. I have told him in no uncertain terms that I am engaged, and do not feel comfortable going out for lunch with other men. He is Indian, not Pakistani, so maybe he doesnt understand that muslim girls dont go out with random guys.

[NomiCA]

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@saimab33

there is “uncle friendly” and then there is “perv friendly”. He is clearly “perv friendly”. I have told him in no uncertain terms that I am engaged, and do not feel comfortable going out for lunch with other men. He is Indian, not Pakistani, so maybe he doesnt understand that muslim girls dont go out with random guys.

OMG… why uncertain terms…you are HR..you should know better

… this is how you do it…

tell him " Uncle G…you are like my DAD…i don’t want you to EVER ask me again about a dinner/lunch…do you understand??"

[diwana]

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Funny thing is that some women are not even attracted enough, but still complain they were harrassed.
(Not directed to BBcue.)

[queer]

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so one needs to be attractive in order to be harassed? nice...