Perfect age to get married?

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lets get to the bottom........... if the girl doesn't find ur income as enough....what do you propose to do??

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stereotyping

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explain. .
if you got married at the age of 42 then its not my fault..

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you are the one who imposed the 'enough'-condition

i say get married

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:biggthumb:!! Agreed!

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stay on topic - the thread is not about me, btw im 37 lol

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your choice........ i don't propose some guy marrying a woman who finds his income inadequate........

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37 that explain the seriousness of reply's..
uncle i am sorry to offend you

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There are way too many options now for food and takeout and hiring cooks at minimal wages (parttime)

Cooking is not necessarily a requirement.

As for making enough, that's all a state of mind. Sometimes very little can suffice if you are content with what you have, sometimes no matter how much you have can be enough if you are greedy.

Food for thought: The descendants of moghuls are now living in abject poverty in smaller areas in Lahore. Whereas these mannus and other multimillionaires in Pakistan are mostly self made first generation people.

Rizq is written in your kismet. You will get what's coming to you.
You can marry someone who's making "enough" and he can go bankrupt. You can marry someone of little money and his luck can suddenly change.

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haha Uncle, I'm sorry too. Don't scold me!

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Do you guys think that the environment the person grows up in also has a part in it?
I do notice that ppl from europe or the US marry on a older age now a days.

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Tell her to live with it and do shukar. Meanwhile do your best at what you do to bring home the chicken :P

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if she doesn't think its enough to begin with...........why should i marry her when she doesn't even agree to it???

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I think the question really needs to be:

**Beyond what age is it unrealistic to expect good rishtas and when/at what age should parents and girls alike wake up and smell the coffee and be more proactive in looking for rishtas?

There is a growing trend in getting married later and later, and we have examples on GS itself of girls who are suffering because of delaying marriage. What age should marriage be taken seriously into consideration and when should active searching begin for both males/females?**

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If she doesnt agree to it,** she's obviously not marrying you.** So what's the issue?

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Not necessarily. There are those who marry right off the bat there too.

Define older age.

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no issue........ i said before too....... guys make enough (for the girl to find satifactory) then marry...

Sk on the other hand.......wants people to marry those girls who don't find the guys' income enough.........

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Well.. 20 years back ppl married when they just turned into a adult ( at 18/20)
Now a days...Ppl get married when they reach 30... Atleast that is what i see here.
Im not in Pak so i dont know how its going there.

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my work is done...i go watch a movie now...

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Not necessarily that that happened twenty years back. I know of many friends of my parents who fall into that bracket and who married between 25-30. I think rather than timeline it is more dependant on families and their own customs and ideas.