Re: older men
I’m offended.
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Re: older men
give some examples of WHAT they’ve achieved, WHAT kinda personality they have.. is it their clothing, keeping mouth shut habit, or fear of speaking that makes them mature or is it just “ONE OF THOSE IMAGES YOUR MIND BUILDS” that u have about 30+ ppl?
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[quote=“parissenoor”]
it seems to me that only older men (30+) are wise enough and brainy enough to be good partners, and good fathers…that younger ones are just too immature…
what do you think?/QUOTE
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[quote=“parissenoor”]
I said 30+:D
this has to do with character…but it seems to me that the older a guy gets and the more understandable he is…I don’t know why, I feel that more older men than young ones seems to have brain and nice conversation topic:)/QUOTE
yup right noori u r so sweet & cute
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Im sorry if in any way I have offended but, NO I was not referring to any kind of their proper clothing style or other stuff. I personally know guys who at mid twenties accomplished and established good business, getting ready to married, finished grad schools and with their social lives are taking care of their family.
And, No again I was not referring to the guys who keep their mouth shut…if their mouth is shut then I guess there is no way to tell whether they are mature or immature!
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It all depends on his upbringing! Even younger men can be good fathers and wise men.
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Ummm i think my father was the best dad ever n he was a young dad 
..used to play with us , used to help my sis n cousins wid homework n i remember we used to comes running to him when we were hurt instead of going to our mom .
he had this caring playful relationship with us which mom never had ..n then in my family i have alot of male cousins who r young fathers (in 20s) n all of em r so caring n sweet fathers ..i find em cute …so i kind of agree wid rimsh on Immatureness and wisdom has nothing to do with age…
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HELL no! Dont go for an older guy, I would rather grow old with him than watch him die.
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OK. Sorry! Serious answer now.
If what we're considering is only the correlation of maturity and age, then my opinion can be summed up by this quote:
"Measurement of life should be proportioned rather to the intensity of the experience than to it's actual length."
The same thing holds for maturity level. It's not about the number of years, but about the intellect and knowledge gained, and how well one can apply in real life what one has learnt. A sixty year old can be immature. An eighteen year old can be a genius. I admit that most young men in early twenties may not show the level of commitment and earnestness essential to smooth working of a family life. But, it's no rule. Similarly, older guys can be wise, or they can be stupid. Sometimes, people behave the way they're expected to behave.
If we're looking for a partner in life, then maturity is only one of the factors that need consideration. Only a very small fraction of people have the strength to live a life that conforms to idealism. For most people, it has to be a balancing act. A person can have all the maturity in the world and still be a failure when it comes to the material aspects of life. Maturity can't feed you; it can't provide for the things that almost all of us long for. So, obviously girls would go for a man who may not have the highest degree of intellect, but he's capable of providing them at least the necessities of life. Girls are right when they view the level of maturity in terms of the business asstes or marketable learning. Ironically, that's one of the reasons many of them are willing to marry a person with considerable age difference. There's nothing wrong with a young girl marrying an older man, or a young man marrying an older woman, as long as they're of marriageable age. If it works for them, I have no right to pass judgements on their relationship.
When it comes to maturity, age is just but numbers signifying nothing ...
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well said TruckDriver.
It really depends on what a person goes through in their own life.
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then according to your reply, age doesnt matter really.. cuz what guarentee you have that after marriage, guy wouldnt become immature?
(yes, we do that)
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i have to agree with some of the posts above. there are some men who become mature at an early age and some men who are immature well into their old age.
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hunting husbands?
err, I respect men to much to think about them as…“prey”
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respect shespect
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what do you mean?
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Most humans tend to act like animals anyway, when it comes to this whole mating process. Some things evolution just couldn't fine tune.
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thats what my friend thought she was divorced in 2 years.
The guy who is older then you will not be as ambitious, as outgoing, as funny, someone who is ready to take risk etc. He is more clamned, relaxed and knows exactly what he wants in his life. You may want to have fun after shadi he is ready to make you mommy and take care of family.
There shouldnt be a difference of over 3-6 years... sometimes i even feel that is a lot. Mine one is 5 and half years older then me. i am a total thug in front of him :D
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The guy who is older then you will not be as ambitious, as outgoing, as funny, someone who is ready to take risk etc. He is more clamned, relaxed and knows exactly what he wants in his life. You may want to have fun after shadi he is ready to make you mommy and take care of family.
Unless a female wants someone more calmed, relaxed, and who knows exactly what he wants in his life, is ready to be mommy and take care of the family.
As for older men, in their 30's they're pretty ambitious, they still take risks (albeit wiser ones), and can be funny/outgoing depending on the personality type.
Men don't become bores after hitting 30's NECESSARILY.
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pcg - i sadly came across boring 30 year old souls…
so he is thirty what a competition i have 