Cafe' has changed alot. From people to responses, everything has changed. Cheap stupid jokes.. no sense of humour.. posts full of smilies with no particular reason.. There was nothing like this back when i joined. There are still people here who respect one other but most of the guppies just have a i-will-bite-you-if-you-talk-to-me or a come-on-baby-lets-flirt attitude. Then we hear alot about harsh Pm's sent between guppies. Cafe' didnt use to be like this.
Not just the cafe', forums like general have changed too. Time changes alot of things. :-)
Problem Girl trust me, if I could give a warning for that reason, I would. I can't give warnings just because I don't like something. When I moderate, I have to think (before I issue the warning): Is this something that only I don't like? OR Is this something the majority won't like?
Keeping the cheap jokes example in mind or posts full of smilies, I can't issue a warning because that is something I personally don't like. Most people enjoy that stupidity, hence I can't issue a warning. Don't get me wrong. That doesn't mean I never use post smilies or sometimes just be plain silly. No. I do that too, but there's a limit.
There are some things where I issue warnings when I think if I won't issue a warning, things will get out of hands. You have to keep several factors in mind when moderating. You have to kill the personal feelings and the person inside you. You have to keep the majority in mind. It's very tough to seperate your personal feelings from what the majority will feel :)
thanx for all to reply here and give me thier openion .. may be we ll find out solution ..
wat i got extract from all posts
many old guppies think that they dont see healthy sence of humor any more now a days in cafe & due to too much Flirt attitudewith cheapjokes and over limits cafe become a senceless ...and multinicks also count in these factors ..
Grouping & politics r growing in cafe via pmz ..and sincerty , peace , respect had gone
cafe isnt much active like was old days .
to ab kia kerain phir ? cafe say bhagna to koi hal nahi ..
bechi ziadah ot main anhi ebta sekti …nick ab benanya per GS per 2/3 yrs say chakar lega rhei hoon…sirf cafe main hi nahi mujhay ot poora hi change leg raha hay…aur din ba dina aur bhi ho ga i think…
aik to shikra bechay ki baat bilkul theek hay…dusra bohet say puranay members chelay gay ya kem kem attay hain …jin ki posts kafi enjoy kerti thi…
papa ki muskaan ;DJ,irem?simply seema (kem kem aati hain)… aur bhi kuch guppies hin jin k nicks abhi zehen main nahi a rehay:smack:
Barhi bee > old iis gold no doubt .. jo chalay gaye un ko bhi yad rakhain
lakin jo baycharay ab mojood hain un ka bhi to khiyal rakhain
wow yeh to shair ban gaya
wah app to kafi "pohnchi" hoi shayara hain :)......aray ebchay un ka bhi khayal rekhti hoon.........per i think itnay achay members ko gs nahi chorna chahiyay attay jatay rehna chahiyay
bechay bataya nan nick ab benaaya hay un logon sya kabhi bata nahi hoi sirf posts perhi hoi hain…
aur agree kafi guppies nay nicks ka “achaar” dalna start ker diya …ab main bourhi pehchaan hi nahi paati
