im so sorry about your friend :(
Thats a really different way to look at it....I would never consider myself the type of person to break promises or not keep my word, but the way you're saying it...it is....
u know the thing is I used to be a very punctual person. I would ask others to hang out, i would always be on time. I dont feel that was a quality that was appreciated....it didnt benefit me in any way so I stopped caring that much at all. i felt like...if xyz can alwyas do this, then who cares if i do or dont do it. but now i realize thats not right to do either.
me too :(
I understand how you feel...I can see how someone who is punctual (especially from the desi community) would feel like its not an appreciated quality. But who knows, maybe your friend saw this wonderful thing about you several years ago and after your friendship ended, regretted her own actions and decided to take on your good trait/habit. We don't always know how we've affected others' lives and whether people appreciate these things...I'm sure they do, because its a part of the way people will see you and think about you, even if its several years down the line.