As far as I know most of the guys you mentioned above are jerks of another level, baba i dotn know about...i think hes trying too hard to be funny and cute and doesnt realize that he is not.
Did you contact an admin about the PMs?
If you are this upset about their behavior there is no reason to put up with their harrasment.
Secondly, I dont think the fact that you are from the Iqbal family matters to me or anyone else.