First of all she has to be a Muslima . preferably from Pakistani origin .. She has to be tall, well-sculpted figure, clear skin, long hair , wide eyed innocence, an angelic face, poise …you’ve probably heard it all.
She’ll also need to include the following in her dictionary , an elfish sense of humour, positive attitude towards things and life in general, good communication skills .
Should speak Urdu as Ahl-e-zuban .. Understanding of ghalib gets her extra marks .
She got to be understanding, caring, possessing a pure and tamed inner self, sensitive, undemanding, loyal, unselfish, respectful of me and my family. The theory of a goody-goody housewife is long over. Therefore she should be a level-headed career woman who juggles her life between work and home with equanimity.
The delicate " Allah mian I can’t do anything on my own" girls are out. 
she should have Feminine grace, a captivating style of walking, talking or merely lifting her head and nodding.
She should be Mature enough with common sense but can cuddle up like a kid if need be, a good listener, rational, who thinks clearly and takes well-timed decisions, is tolerant to faults, a strong support during rough times, lends soft cushioning .
One could just go on and on. After all wishes have no end. As ghalib said ‘ HazRooN khawishainn ayse k haR khawish pe daam niklay’
I know I wouldn’t get a superwoman as I aint a superman. Therefore She will be accepted wholly, along with her good and bad.
