Re: not having a job
^ yea like the situation im in currently is like my fiance's in pak and he has a job but once he leaves and comes here he wont have one so he'll have to find one so i guess he'll b kinda unemployed when we do start off life together but he has the educational background like nadz's fiance wit a master and what not along with experience out ther so inshallah it wont be so bad but what i meant by my first post is that some parents want a guy who has savings and a house seperate from his parents blah blah just for a secure mind i guess.
persoanlly im not botherd bcoz i always say whatevers in ur kismat wil come ur way.. wherever ur rozee is written like ur mum sez kal ka kya patha. even an educated person can lose thier job. my uncles an accountant and made redundant just this week and he's at the top of his profesion
i think whats important is having the potential to stand back up and finding ur own way.