No Smoking day 8th of March!!

[Anil_Khan]

Re: No Smoking day 8th of March!!

@nia_khan

oh no another one .... In the old days - husband called their wives "tusi" , " sunein", etc with respect and lets talk about now a days. "hey yo", "tum kidhar gai thi", blah and blah. You guys should not even be talking about respect of old days. You can't even give respect to your mothers like that how dare you expect your wives to give you that same respect. Those days Husband didnt speak lounder in front of their wives they felt it was a disrespect. They even fullfilled all of their wishes plus took care of kids. My nana abu ji took care of education part of everyone and nani ami ji did others. Old days are gone and time has changed. Those days people actually respected their wives thats why they got the respect back. They didnt sit and smoked in front of them leaving their face filled with smoke around it. They cared for them.

you know whats bad you all smokers know smoking is bath for you folks but you still do it- thats pathetic .. losers....

First off, I don't smoke nor do I condone it.

Secondly, I feel respect goes both ways in a marriage. But the key point is the form of respect is different. Males should get respect as the leader of the family while females should get respect as the queen of the family, who's word should be final at the domestic level. Males should get the final say when it comes to worldly or financial decision (ofcourse after discussion within the family).

These days females want to be the equivalent if not more of a factor in worldly decisions within a family; which is something different for us traditional people.

I don't know which way is better, modern or traditional. I guess it depends on the family.