Re: No one is allowed to look more dressed up than ME on MY wedding day
insecurity i call it..it's a bride's day anyway. She would be the centre of attention and would also be the special one the entire evening.
However I wouldn't ever let anyone get away with similar kaam of my bridal lehnga in any way. If someone else is wearing her wedding dress - if she can carry it off well then good for her. :) I wouldnt mind much.
Re: No one is allowed to look more dressed up than ME on MY wedding day
A one wedding all the sisters in law wore their bridal joras .and yes u can wear them without going bridal but very few people know how to do this.The most common reasoning is: I cant wear such a Heavy jora and not do proper makeup.nOw with the makeup I cant not wear my jewelry.To complete the look I have to my hair done na..eh,.Hello aunty?! get over it!.
I saw a bride wearing her bridal dress at someone else wedding it was rich ,deep and gorgeous.But she kept her makeup to the bare minimum and kept her hair in a high pony.despite that I couldn’t help wondering if she looked so gorgeous with almost no makeup and jewelry how would she have looked on her wedding day.She didn’t upstage the bride and yet found a way to wear the bridal dress again.:k:
Re: No one is allowed to look more dressed up than ME on MY wedding day
I have actually worn my outfit to a family wedding...I made pants to go with it when I got the lehnga made so they came in handy.
Re: No one is allowed to look more dressed up than ME on MY wedding day
*Of course she has every right to be pissed. *
I do believe that you CAN wear your wedding dress to another wedding but there's a proper way and a wrong way to do it. It's one thing if you wear what you would normally wear and you get there and find out that the bride is very...ummm shall we say..understated...that's not your fault. But if you KNOW for a fact that the bride is not into bling bling, and you go there dressed to the nines expecting to stand out and get attention then that IS wrong and quite mean of them.
I wore my wedding dress to my devar's wedding because I knew it was accepted in their family for them to do that....my dress was at least ten times heavier than hers (and aside from my regrets at wearing it) she did look absolutely beautiful on her wedding. My jethani also wore her wedding outfit and jewelery (wth the jhumar too) on my wedding, and it looked nice.
DON'T wear the duputta on the head! Get a lighter duputta if possible ro pin it to the shoulder. If you wear hijab then for God's sake, WEAR A PROPER SCARF! A bridal duputta is NOT a hijab. DON'T wear the wedding dress on the wedding day (and valima dress on the valima day and so on). DON'T wear the dress if you're not the sister/sister-in-law/direct relative of the person getting married!
How so? No one knew she'd look like such a simpleton on her wedding day, bridal dress is often a kept as a top secret till a last minute. If the bride has the nerve to get pissed at bunch of young 20 something girls looking glamorous and attractive on her wedding day, growing up would count as a better option than getting married.
Re: No one is allowed to look more dressed up than ME on MY wedding day
How so? No one knew she'd look like such a simpleton on her wedding day, bridal dress is often a kept as a top secret till a last minute. If the bride has the nerve to get pissed at bunch of young 20 something girls looking glamorous and attractive on her wedding day, growing up would count as a better option than getting married.
I agree with this.
Re: No one is allowed to look more dressed up than ME on MY wedding day
How so? No one knew she'd look like such a simpleton on her wedding day, bridal dress is often a kept as a top secret till a last minute. If the bride has the nerve to get pissed at bunch of young 20 something girls looking glamorous and attractive on her wedding day, growing up would count as a better option than getting married.
DId htey know beforehand she would be "beige and boring" or only found out when they got there? because if it's the former...I still stand by what I said... if it's the latter, well then...
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Gosh these brides are so insecure...kasam se, let your guests wear whatever the hell they want...
Lol. My Mumani wore her bridal on my khala's wedding. It looked fine. Everyone knows who the bride is man. and yeah, the guest should not adjust the dupatta the way a bride does. That can be changed so she doesn't look like a bride.
I wear bright and happy colors like red orange to weddings and it looks fine- no bride should feel bad . Weddings are for dressing up! Be glad that ppl dressed up for it and brightened Ur event :)
Re: No one is allowed to look more dressed up than ME on MY wedding day
DId htey know beforehand she would be "beige and boring" or only found out when they got there? because if it's the former...I still stand by what I said... if it's the latter, well then...
I don't see why if the bride CHOSE to wear beige and be boring, regardless of prior disclosure, everyone else has to be just as boring if not more than her. If I'm paying for my clothes they will be what I want them to be.
Re: No one is allowed to look more dressed up than ME on MY wedding day
DId htey know beforehand she would be "beige and boring" or only found out when they got there? because if it's the former...I still stand by what I said... if it's the latter, well then...
They had no idea, if anything they thought she's gonna be all dolled up.
Re: No one is allowed to look more dressed up than ME on MY wedding day
No one can out-do the bride..bride's always the bride! :)