i never implied rukhsathi prevents divorce.
but people who treat nikkah as a getting to know period because they dont believe in engagements, are silly to me.
A nikkah is a marriage... simple.
what u said in ur previous post about doing all the cutesy wootsy stuff after the nikkah..... well how does a full rukhsati stop one from that? u cant be all gf/bfish once u get married?
I agree that treating nikkah as engagment (getting to know period) is stupid but atleast what I know people do not do that.
As for cutsy things yes after the Ruksati comes the resposibilty of ghar dari, inlwas and what not. Couples do get the honey moon period of one week and then back to routine. I am talking about majority of cases here. So I think if for what ever reson Ruksati is delayed it can be a wonderful and memorable experience in a pakistani couple's life.