Nikkah without Rukhsati

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@Enigmatica

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yea i know wot you mean. but then i would have to live at my in laws. and it’s my final year too..and it’s really tough. they have a huge family in lahore.. ppl keep visiting, n they have gatherings and all, finding proper time to study would be so difficult for me ..n with such tough studies, and emergency duties… adjusting at a new place would be difficult that too without my husband..

n my parents wouldnt want me to come back to my own place AFTER rukhsati..

and since i wud be moving to uk later, i wud want to spend more time with my mom n dad. don’t you think ?

am so confused

The fact that people still think this way makes me sad and angry.

But I agree with PCG. Why not just wait to do the nikkah?