Finances and traditions.. they all suck energy and give loads of stress.. I am going through it now.. eventhough I want to take care of my side of the family shaadi..my involvement has been limited to just researching hotels and thats it.. everything will be finalized by my parents after they discuss with their friends… it is just painful that it being my wedding.. its the friends who get more importance..
I wanted a nice small nikkah at home.. but my father pays more importance to legal papers and so he insisted on court marriage which also does nikkah.. 2 in 1.. and the sad part is.. that we will be waiting in line to get the papers signed and leave.. it just takes away from that whole nikkah scenario.. thanks for their friends! aagh!
I wish we are trusted more than we are told so.
