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and if someone does not read the form before signing it then its not islam's fault naa
Its not. But maybe it is, maybe they should make sure the bride/groom go thru it?
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maiN ne aaj tak yeh nahiiN sunaa aur na hii dekhaa...India meN to aisaa koii form nahiiN hotaa jis meN talaaq kaa option ho aurat ke liye. lagtaa hai yeh Pakistan sarkaar kii taraf se hogaa...ho saktaa hai kisi ek fiqh meN aisaa hotaa ho magar hamaare fiqh meN aisaa nahiiN hai
bhai sahab, find out an indian form and read it. Its not a Pakistani or specific fiqh thing. Its an islamic right that every muslim woman has.
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Its not. But maybe it is, maybe they should make sure the bride/groom go thru it?
who are they?
if bride and groom are dumb enough not to go through a form on which they are signing their lives off, why would someone else care
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bhai sahab, find out an indian form and read it. Its not a Pakistani or specific fiqh thing. Its an islamic right that every muslim woman has.
ok, i'll do that but woman does have a right but u've to go to islamic shar'ia court to get divorce even if it's on the form...i'll, inshaa Allah, inquire from the Imam saaHib of the local Masjid...thankoo :)
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ok, i'll do that but woman does have a right but u've to go to islamic shar'ia court to get divorce even if it's on the form...i'll, inshaa Allah, inquire from the Imam saaHib of the local Masjid...thankoo :)
Nope, if the hubby gives her the right during nikah, she does not need to go through the court. Going through the court right (khula) is always hers anyways. It does not need to be in a nikah nama for her to get that right.
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they as in the imam and the parents.
well bachey excitement mein bhool jatey hain and its not the “trend” u c :halo:.
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kis cheez kee excitement 
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ur the married one here so you tell us 
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ur the married one here so you tell us :D
you are the one who used the word excitement so you should know
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i do NOT think it's Islamic...never heard of such provision!
ya in nikkah form if the women tick the box she has the right to divorce...however this goes ignored as a lot of women are not told about this right of theirs. she can say 3 baar talaaq to him too just like he can (they should this in a pak drama).
parents should surely make their daughters tick that box.
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^ and don't be surprised rate of divorce tripled (at least) and more kids go through broken families.
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it is better to be in a broken family then in abusive relationships
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Abusive relationship can be corrected/amended and reversed.
Broken/divorced one cannot be brought together.
No support for abuse, neither for divorce.
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well statistics say abusive spouses almost never change, even when they remarry. sorry diwana, wrong again. 
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^ and don't be surprised rate of divorce tripled (at least) and more kids go through broken families.
so just cause the divorce rate does not grow ladies should not have this right? whether divorce rate grows or decreases women should have this right.
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again? That requires at least one prior occasion… which is lacking here.
Even if someone says and other person agrees with almost never, that would be better than… never.
Divorced people cannot marry again.
Abused families CAN come to reconcile and be happy again.
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again? That requires at least one prior occasion..... which is lacking here. :D
Even if someone says and other person agrees with almost never, that would be better than... never.
Divorced people cannot marry again. Abused people can get married again but have to go through the process ho Halala
Abused families CAN come to reconcile and be happy again.
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Divorced people can get married again but have to go through the process ho Halala
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Busted!
P.S. I had that in my mind but you all the people posing to be 'muslim’ brought this. 
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Nope.
As it is men do abuse this choice.
Why should this be given to women as well?
And before you say, men will stop abusing this choice if women are also given same choice, …think again.
Two individuals given grenade in hands to use at will, are worse than one person in any dispute. (diwana) 
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Nope.
As it is men abuse this choice.
Why should this be given to women?
because its their right to have it-its in the nikkah form so they are entitled to have it. and anyone who misuses such rights will face punishment by god.