neha
November 30, 2010, 5:05pm
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Re: Negativity..
I hate when people are back bitting and then if you ask them why you said this about me..then they would be like..no i didnt said this
the same people will be nice to you if you are with them but behind your back, they will be back bitting…i hate such type of people .
exactly…hypocrites..
I just call the person out on their behavior if they are close to my age group.. if they are older… **I just smile, say ji and try to get out of the situation as soon as possible. **
If you are sitting in the group and they start this sort of conversation, politely ask then to change the subject and talk about something good and positive.
If they carry on b-itching about others then just leave quietly without coming across as rude . They will soon understand that you’re not interested and wont avoid starting these conversations infront of you.
HTH.
what if u have someone very close who has this habit? and u can’t walk away everytime..that is someone living at ur home and u have to bear the all the time then?