My wife is 3 years and 4 months older than me

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and why is it so hard for u to swallow that people may not like and want kids.

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I agree with you. nice to know someone else thinks like me too :)

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lol...yes you do sound like someone whos immature

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I pity you for your immature mentality :)
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I am not immature person but agar koi itna bara jhoot bole ga to yehi kuch ho ga why did she not tell me before so i am not at fault she is at fault. Now its in my hand use rakhon ke na. Koi bara mughe nahin rok sakta mughe kyun ke woh sab phel hi chud gaye bcz of this girl.

Shukar kerta hoon keh yeh meri love marriage thi otherwise is ko chorna mushkil ho jana tha. Its a biggest advantage of love marriage that jab dil kere larki ko chor do.

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you need to grow up....and you shouldnt have gotten married at such a young age because you were not ready for it.

you're not a sincere person judging by what you have said above. when you love someone you should love them for life.....not part time.

and whether its love marriage or arranged marriage, you should still show respect towards your partner.

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one word...idiot wise up b4 its too late...age is only a number after all...if u luvd ur wife b4 marriage it was because of the person she is and the personality she has, not because of her age u arrogant bigot!

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Hmmm... Nothing is hard for me to swallow except intolerance. Do I care if someone does not want or like kids? Not at all.

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This thread should be a lesson to those who believe in love too much. A speck is all that is required to kill love.

Sorry to say Dracula, but if you will go for the divorce, I am pretty sure it will not be your last one.

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so why is it that girls dont have a problem if their husbands are older than them but god forbid if they girl is older than the guy????

are you upset that she lied to you or that she is older than you???? i thought if you fell in love you fell in love....you dont care what they do.. or how old they are??? and you call it love!!!!!!!!!!

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lol, that’s so true :slight_smile:

Sorry to say but i thought it’s a genuine problem untill dracula came up with comments like " love marriage ka yehi faida hai k jab dil karay chor dou".

I am sure he is laughing out hard watching people making emotional comments and giving him advices.

But if there is any truth in this story then he should divorce the girl because it’s unfair to a 16 year old to marry 27 yr old girl. :grumpy:

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Dracula, you sound really upset about this age difference.
And you have chosen a net-name that reflects a very angry state of mind.
I'm guessing that the lie about age is just one of a series of things that have made you unhappy. Probably not the age in itself but the fact that she lied to you.
A good relationship can survive many crises but a one that is fragile wil not survive much. You will need to think whether this marriage is worth it to you to work and try to resolve your differences or not.

Why is it so important that your wife be younger than you? Does she have no other qualities that make her special to you? Or did you fall in love with her age? I think you need to think about your feelings and expectations. Even a big age difference made no difference to the happiness in our prophet's marriage, and I personally know of many happy marriages where the woman is older than the man - even one where she is 10 years older and they have 3 children and have been married for 35 years.......

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One thing to keep in mind also is age expectancy. The average female lives for more than 7 years longer than the average male. So if everything else is held equal, a 7 year age difference means nothing....so a 3 year difference is LESS than nothing!

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^ Interesting! So at atleast they can die together.