I found out I had pcos when I was 16, so it wasn't so bad. I've had a while to cope. They talked about freezing my eggs but I'm not really interested. I wouldn't dare think of using a surrogate mother, and all that money and time holding those eggs would be a waste (especially considering they have to be fertilized before freezing).
I don't really have plans to have children, unless I adopt. My morals don't really allow me to, but I still want the option in case I ever change my mind. And it's really not just that that hurts. It's just that I'm always sick, and I've been dealing with the possibility of cancer for years. It's so stressful.
I knew i had pcos when i was in late teens but didnt really care at that age and doctor told me i might even have it as i am on border line. but 2-3 years later i was told i have it and i couldnt concieve and thats when i got really stressed out as each month i would hope i dont get my period and that i would be pregnant but luckly i only struggled for several months and i was worked hard to loose weight as doctor told me that its my only option as my pocs is not extreme as my periods were regular.
with my lumps they are regular and doctors said they could be anything, nothing or even cancer. now i have stopped thinking of them and dont really care if i have lump or not. trying to ignore it totally.
i can understand how it feels to be in waiting line not knowing whats there for you. we can all say that we understand your situation but its too tough to be in your position. i pray Allah gives you strength to cope and you come out of it quickly.