Thanks every1 for the responses. I'm glad my wife has a good sense of humor about such things. Thanks to Allah SWT we are best friends despite my fears of overcoming a parent arranged marriage. And the fact that I was raised the states.
And for those of you who posted comments about her jewellery.. it just so happens that my father in and her mamu are Jewellers in Peshawar.
I always introduce her as "my first wife" just to see the reaction I get. It's pretty funny.
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[This message has been edited by SHAHZAD612 (edited July 10, 2002).]
ahhhhhhh.. relieved.. SO much relieeeeeeeeeeeeeeeved.. :)
badall kar **faizy* ka hamm bhais ghaalib,
tamaasha-e-ahl-e-gupshup dekhtay hain
daba kar pait main saaray sarkaari raaz, badboo'aiN hamm phailaatay hain*....
awww...she is pretty and you guys make a cute couple...plus, its VERY nice of her to take ur jokes cuz honestly, I would seriously KILL my husband if he joked around like that...hehehe...
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Originally posted by Completely Incomplete:
**awww...she is pretty and you guys make a cute couple...plus, its VERY nice of her to take ur jokes cuz honestly, I would seriously KILL my husband if he joked around like that...hehehe...
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Thanks for the response but you should think of opening up to humor..especially with a life mate. Comedy is a thread that can bind a long and fruitful marriage.
I have actually always asked this question of people who have been happily married for 50+ years. and the most common answer with the obvious two of respect and trust is humor.
Just imagine being with someone for 50+ years and still being able to put a smile on their face.
Just to give you another perspective.
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