I agree with Imranz post.
Believe In Angels.
Laterz,
ManiaX.
OK...enough is enough.
I wasn't going to participate in this thread but things have gone way too far.
dilse
I have never been affected by "khushamad" and refuse to be in the future. Please don't use it. I have no qualms about disappointing anyone because the expectations people have are set by themselves, not me.
When a member accepts the contract that they sign at the time they join Gup Shup, they are agreeing to abide by the rules. If they neglect to do so, they are warned. If they persist they are banned. So the story goes.
No leniency and no injustice.
With respect to your demand for an apology....sorry, but if you had dealt with the situation courteously it might have been warranted. Now that you have taken a few steps ahead of the moderator it appears to be and equal exchange.
The next step is up to the moderator and you...whatever each choses to do.
Rubiya
When has anything ever stopped anyone from jumping into a discussion that was not meant for them. And here we are talking about a moderator that technically belongs in every thread.
Yes, tempers have flared on this issue and that's why the previous messages have been removed. But notice one thing...when all the insults were being thrown at the Admin team and Azkar nobody was stepping in to talk about the behaviour of the members that took part in the mud-slinging. Nobody made any reference to the "very good training at home how to talk to others.." for those members that attacked us. We listened and listened. In fact, I stayed mute through the whole thing. And now, with the slightest provocation a moderator is subjected to this? A moderator that spends voluntary time to keep this place clean? A moderator that makes sure that when people log on they are not faced with XXX-rated pics posted by some mindless idiot? A moderator that continually endures attacks without responding? How much patience does the membership expect from a human, because that's what moderators are. (These questions are rhetorical - no answers are expected.)
About leaving Gup Shup: Azkar and I have never stopped anyone from leaving of their own accord. This applies to members and moderators alike. We are pleased to have good members aboard and unruly, unhappy members gone. Such threats/blackmail have never affected the success of this forum and never will. New replace the old and life goes on. Anyone that believes that they are indispensible are only fooling themselves.
Muzna,
I thank you for taking the time to post a message for me.
Also, although I can't recollect when and how I may have given Admin the impression that I am an "Indispensable" member, please accept my sincere Apologies for making you guys feel that way.
By the way, thank you for having me on board even though I never had a Pakistani passport!! Laugh! :)
It was great a stay!
[This message has been edited by Rubiya Nur (edited June 02, 1999).]
hehehee...good one Rubiya!!!
thanks for the laughs.
later.