Re: Ms. Kashmiri
Wow. Ur telling me that i shud have bothered to p.m. u, and then u go and address me in a thread! If that's not hypocrisy then i duno wot is. And even though i am flattered, there's no use in u opening threads in my name. U cud have easily sent me a p.m. also. But i guess u needed attention as usual, so go ahead, knock urself out in this thread.
As far as y i didn't p.m. u...firstly, there is nothing private about a private message. I don't like the p.m. system, don't usually use it, only when i really need to...if u think that a message will always remain private, then u must be daft...nothing on the net is really private. If i have something to say to u (which i won't after this post), or any other member, i am not ashamed to say wot's needed, rite there in the threads...which i have always done. And secondly, the complaint was for the ADMINS of this website...u may have been the subject of my complaint, but i believe we r free to voice our concerns in this forum, and that's wot i did. Unlike opening a thread which is clearly meant just for me, and cud have been done "privately". Since i have been a member here i have been disgusted by the way u talk to ppl. No respect at all, i don't even want to imagine wot u r like offline. So yes, i am most definately offended by ur BEHAVIOUR, and not ur opinions. I disagree with a lot of opinions on these forums, that's natural...we r not all alike. So i don't really give a crap about ur bloody opinions...it's ur language and tone. I know many members think the same here, from wot i can see from their answers. And get ur facts straight before u decide to slag me off again, yakking around saying i have "affairs with guys". Respect starts with oneself, if u can't respect urself u obviously won't respect anyone else. And i for one actually do.
I came to Feedback to lodge a complaint with Admins and bring another side to them (not that they hadn't heard it before from others). I have done so, and am now content. I really don't give u or this website that much importance, that it will make me go and look thru countless threads for ur ridiculously rude remarks. That's the administrations' job, i frankly have better things to do with my time. Just wanted to bring it to their attention. I am very satisfied with ehsan's response to my query thru p.m., and i know i can discuss any other things i may find offensive in the future, with him (and not any particular member). Oh and i'm not trying to "get u off this board" lol...u r quite capable of accomplishing that on ur own. I come here to get to know more about Pakistani culture and my religion...probably won't even come here after my marriage pretty soon. This is just time pass for me these last few and upcoming months. I have no interest of removing some online persona from a website. Jeez, once again, u r not of that much importance. I had an opinion about ur rude comments all the time, and i have done my part of voicing that opinion. I know i am not the first (looking at this forum), nor will i be the last, to complain about u if u keep up this attitude of urs.
And ur boss is rite. I wud follow his advice if i were u, EVERYDAY that is...not just once in a while when ur feeling attacked, bcos someone is offended by u. I am not a hateful person one bit, it's not in my nature. So no bottling up going on here. I have said wot i wanted to ehsan...end of story.
Thanks very much for this thread, it gave me a rite laugh...from now on, I don't want anything to do with ur sort. There r plenty of others here, who have manners, that i can interact with online. I'll let u be.
Cheers.