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^ Can your sister spell the word hypocrite? She might want to look it up.
I think she might not consider herself a hypocrite because her in-laws are staying with another son, whereas OP is the only son, and the whole parents must stay with son thing must apply, hence her freak out.
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So that escalated pretty fast.
In no way am I suggesting that you and your wife should live with parents if they don't change their behavior but I would strongly advise for you to talk to them first about it and tell them the reason why you would be moving.
As long as you don't have any other problems with living with them after marriage, they have a right to be told that you're worried about the ramifications their attitude will have on your marital life and that's why you're moving. What if they really work on themselves? Would you change your mind?
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If I were you, I would even go as far as living with my parents first and see how things pan out. If boundaries need to be set, I would have a proper discussion about our right to privacy as a married couple now and that dad can't just barge into my room. If things don't work out, you can always move out later.
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my friend thank you guys for all the input
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A few flurries here and there. Don't you miss the snow?
Not yet but my daughter told me other day that she is missing snow! It was a free exercise early morning though...
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If I were you, I would even go as far as living with my parents first and see how things pan out. If boundaries need to be set, I would have a proper discussion about our right to privacy as a married couple now and that dad can't just barge into my room. If things don't work out, you can always move out later.
This is good advice and I highly recommend that you consider it. My parents only have one son as well and I can imagine how devastated they would be if he decided he wants to move out after marriage. When our parents get older they need company- it's not just about you helping them with bills etc, they want companionship. Your parents are going to be very hurt if you don't at least make an attempt of living with them post marriage- explain to them your concerns and then give it a go. If it doesn't work out, you will be justified in moving out but at least give them a chance.
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pisiform.... u r a doctor.......... right?
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why cant i read the original post?