Yeah and since I stuck by my advice of this tree thing, he has totally started behaving and tells me, Okay I’m really angry, I’ll talk to you later when I’m calm because I don’t want to take it out on you for no reason. But then like a good wife I tell him, no no, go ahead, yell and scream if it makes you feel better.. and while he does that, I watch TV until he’s done- the joys of a long-distance marriage. I don’t think I can escape that after my rukhsati though.. so the tree rule will have to be enforced again.