Re: Mixing: Why friendship between non-Mahrams Is Un-Islamic
hi angel
Re: Mixing: Why friendship between non-Mahrams Is Un-Islamic
...and of course the concept of cities should be abolished, because cities house the most number of people, therefore the most number of prostitutes. Can't have that.
That logic doesn't work...
If you want to quarantine men and women their whole life you really forfeit the right to accuse otherse of not using logic. The point is you can access nakedness, prostitutes, dates and casual sex easier on the internet than you can anyhwere else. It's hard not to be exposed to it, and it is a lot easier than fornicating with a woman because you saw her ankle exposed on the streets.
Re: Mixing: Why friendship between non-Mahrams Is Un-Islamic
this is getting stupid now.
Re: Mixing: Why friendship between non-Mahrams Is Un-Islamic
As far as I can tell, the only law from God quoted in this report was "Do not come near fornication". He didn't say "Do not come near women" or "1/2 of the world's population is off limit to you as friends" or "I am going to give you specific, stringent and impossible-to-implment rules to follow so you won't ever have the inkling or desire to fornicate". The rules are simple and universal - keep it in your pants. Dress modestly. Treat all with respect.
Isn't it enough to give us the law, the boundaries and the consequences without ordering the most minute detail of how to interact with each other? These 'rules' create hardship and we lose out in life by not interacting with many, many wonderful people. I would not be near the person I am today without the input, love and friendship of non-family females I have befriended in my life.
The author is using "reported" sayings from a prophet and calling it God's laws.
Good post.
Re: Mixing: Why friendship between non-Mahrams Is Un-Islamic
y it haram, cuz its BIGGGGGG distraction (instead studying love birdz hathoon may dalay haath ghoom rahay hotay hain). it also narrow down realistic n achievable choices n dreamz. more stupid khaili palao manufactures. bla bla bla. in whole a COMpleTE RECIPE HOW TO KILL N DEVALUE UR TIME.
whereas, xtreme frndship leadz to adultery n bla bla bla...which is MORE time waster, time destroyer n also potential rong (unethical) stuff u may gonna face.
Re: Mixing: Why friendship between non-Mahrams Is Un-Islamic
If you want to quarantine men and women their whole life you really forfeit the right to accuse otherse of not using logic.
Didn't advocate that view; merely suggesting the view you are imposing on whatever has been said isn't neccessarily as restrictive as you imagine.
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...it is a lot easier than fornicating with a woman because you saw her ankle exposed on the streets.
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On the Internet? No. Again, a better analogy would be cities themselves. I'm giving you the better argument...take it. Run with it...
Re: Mixing: Why friendship between non-Mahrams Is Un-Islamic
On the Internet? No. Again, a better analogy would be cities themselves. I'm giving you the better argument...take it. Run with it...
Millions and millions use the internet now to find a date, 8% of total emails are porn-related - the average user gets 4.5 pornographic emails a day, 12% of total websites are pornographic and 25% of total search engine requests are porn-related.
Please provide me statistics that show cities are more sex obsessed and more easily acessed for sex than the internet. Besides cities are a necessity in life, the internet isn't. There would be no practical way to ban cities.
Re: Mixing: Why friendship between non-Mahrams Is Un-Islamic
Its not getting stupid. The conclusion that women and men should not talk is no less stupid than the conclusion one shouldn't be using the internet, and one shouldn't be living in naughty metropolitan cities, etc.
The risk for fornication, etc is always there, but if you cut off communication between humans, your society will fall apart. Then we wonder why muslims have so many problems. You don't respect half your population; how the heck do you think anyone will have respect for you?
Its necessary for men and women to talk. If this was haraam, then Angel Eyes shouldn't be in school, let alone her 4th year in law school. If this was haraam, likewise, you boys here shouldn't even be reading my posts or responding to them, because I could be leading you into sin because of my womanliness. bats eyes
Re: Mixing: Why friendship between non-Mahrams Is Un-Islamic
^Are you a female?
Do I sound like a girl to you ...
Re: Mixing: Why friendship between non-Mahrams Is Un-Islamic
Do I sound like a girl to you ...
You don't sound like anything to me.
Re: Mixing: Why friendship between non-Mahrams Is Un-Islamic
It is a moot point on the board to argue for the separation of sexes. Maybe if it was segregated into a male only forum, but there are female posters using hijabless avatars for crying out loud.