hey that's cool...my friend in middle school was half Spanish and half Pakistani. Her parents met in Barcelona, then moved to Canada. The whole family used to speak in Spanish, even the dad. The only sort of drawback I remember is that her mom changed her name to 'Aisha' and her family had a lot of Catholic traditions which she could not participate in. Even though it's good she became Muslim, I felt a lil sad for her because her marriage made her more isolated from her family.
Living in Sin....oh hate to break it to you girl, he's gonna dump you for a Paki when he is ready to get married. I have lots of relatives both girls and guys married to Americans here and none of them lived in sin... when guys are serious they introduce you to the family and get hitched. Most Pakistanis have a double standard, the girl fun to sin with is definitely not one to be the mother of your children.
ok at first u was kinda scary, slowly i am seeing a softa side. But if u was to change ur avatar it would make it alot eaiser not to be so scared of u...:)
Living in Sin....oh hate to break it to you girl, he's gonna dump you for a Paki when he is ready to get married. I have lots of relatives both girls and guys married to Americans here and none of them lived in sin... when guys are serious they introduce you to the family and get hitched. Most Pakistanis have a double standard, the girl fun to sin with is definitely not one to be the mother of your children.
Ouch! Thats a bit harsh dontcha think? Besides your observation/opinion is true but not for all people. Kinda unfair to paint everyone with the same brush. Lets hope for her sake that thats not the case. I know a pakistani guy who was dating an Irish girl for 6 years and for 2 of those years they lived together. He didnt marry her before living together because he was saving up for a nice wedding and a future together so they both split the rent instead of living in separate apartments and paying insane money for rent. After 3 years of living together, his parents came here from Pakistan, he introduced her to his family and they had a beautiful wedding. They have a beautiful baby girl now.
Having said all that, spanishgirl I would still advise you to get the ball rolling in terms of marriage talk. Better safe than sorry!
Dont you people worry, I am very sure about him and even if it may seems strange for you, I am not thinking in marriage (has never been in my mind) even when he is asking me all the time. For me, I am already married and dont need to sign any paper.
I think is a family thing, because I have quite a few cousins living together without papers, but with lot of love, commitment, children and all the stuff…
Be happy people! I trust my bf, and on the other hand, I know of some married pakistani couples in my area, and those married girls dont even know what their dear husbands are doing in the street while she is cooking, looking after children, etc etc
Poor them! I have mine with me every single minute, sharing everything and anything, that is why I trust him and he trust me.
but she is a spanishe rose, what rose is ur wife?
