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watch an episode of friends

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^lol that's what i have been doing for the past 1 hour! it's funny you said that.

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see i got u to laugh. mission accomplished.

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yes that does make you feel better :D

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hahhah aww u knw wt enjoy these moments as much as u can .. these r the best moments of ur lifee trust me.

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Oh Shay, he will be back soon inshallah - read namaaz and pray for yourselves and your families for everything - from now till the wedding day and that everything goes ok inshallah to years after the marriage to bring lots of happiness, joy and good health Inshallah - Ameen!

Smile:phati:

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just keep yourself busy! Deffo go to work cos it'll distract you from feelig sad and will help pass the time and take you closer to seeing your fiancee again :)

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shudder.... now this scares me off marriage even more! :D

Thats just too much love shove... dont u think?

Its sweet and all, but really,,, enjoy this time, get out there, hang out with friends, think of it like ur free time till ur marriage, laterafter marriage, life changes and there are more responsibilities, anf it has pluses but it has negatives as well... if I were you I'd make the most of it instead of crying and wanting to see him again when he was just here!... trust me, you'll be sick of that face later in life :D you'll be seeing it 24/7. I'm sure you can do with some time doing other things.

Lord have mercy on the guy :D are u like calling him 15 times a day and crying????

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Huh? Do let us know what you are in love Kaka!!! You can never get sick of the same face again and again..in fact you jst stare at them 24/7 and make them feel a lil awkward and then explain, " oh i am jst so lucky to have you in my life AH"...Jeez they are your life partner, how can one feel like what you are saying?

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^I agree! Everytime I visit him and my inlaws, I come back happy and not sad at all. I always come back to my home already looking forward to the next trip and smiling for days at all the memories. But it’s only this time that I felt like making them stay for longer or just going to Miami and spending time with them. My parents in law called yesterday to tell me they miss me alot too and that made me feel so much better. My fiance ofcourse has tried everything to make me unsad.. and I think it is working now. Then I came here and after reading the wedding threads like I normally do, I have started mentally planning my wedding again so that’s turning out to be a great distraction. Happy thoughts, that’s all I want to get back to :slight_smile:

You guys are all so awesome- thanks for the posts and support :hugz:

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Very true sunset! Every moment with them is special (maybe not every for some couples but most are). Considering that you're in love with the person, everything seems so right and happy when you're around/with them. I doubt if that's gonna change after marriage because love grows.. and so does the closeness. I think a couple gets even closer, happier and more comfortable with each other after they are wedded. The things you do together, going out, eating, sharing happiness and sadness. With friends, you have to call and see if they are busy or if they can do this or that but your spouse is always with you. Even if they are working, you don't have to hesitate before going to talk to them or just cuddle. I just don't see any reason why they would get sick of each other.

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Bingo Shay - you summed it up! Being totally in love is truely amazing AH. :sara:

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Alhumdullillah I agree with both Shay & Sunset eyes..but I think what the other poster means is to enjoy your life now. Indeed it is wonderful being with the person you love, but enjoy your single life as well, as things do change, no matter how in love you are....its all part of life...more responsibilities. Enjoy this period...kehthay hain, miss kernay ka bhi apna maza hain...you'll realize this when your actualy married & together. You will miss the "period you missed him when you were apart..the anticipation..etc).
May Allah bless your married life.

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True, but i must say i prefer this life to my single life...NOW my life is complete AH.

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girly view.
Its more like mom's love though.

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Are you married or in love with someone? If not, then you wont know what i feel like when i am with him...

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^lol what k_a?! no.. it's true love!

sunset, you are making me want to get married asap!!!
A-S, you're right.. after marriage, life will still be exciting but missing what we have now.. such as looking forward to meeting each other and spending time together, etc etc

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ive been widout hubs 4 8 months but i get through the day we always chat on da phone dont worry he b back in 3 weeks tym will fly by u wouldnt no he was gone

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Double Shudder 'AH'! :D

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aww shay i’m glad you’re happier now :slight_smile:
reading your posts is making me fall in love with my fiance all over again for some reason :wub: