yup and now that ur whole family is here... Pakistan is finally filth free.
[This message has been edited by mundyaa (edited September 22, 1999).]
Mundyaa,
Come on yaar, didn't you read what Shpooky just said? It might be that NYA's dad is a decent guy so hold your fire dude.
NYA, are you going to keep us informed of how the visit goes? Let us know what you give your Dad for breakfast. Is it going to be Coco pops or....uhm... something else? All your pals at Gupshup will be keeping an eye out for you.
Your caring, sharing, Mr Xtreme
Dear Mundyaa,
what can I say? Those with no respect for their own, show it by pointing to others. You are doing a excellent job at telling us your own views about your own family. If you think that Pakistan will be filth free by my family moving out from there, so be it. I still love my family with all their filth and backward views. I have been brought up to love my family regardless and unconditionally (still being able disagree with them on certain issues). I know it is a wrong way. I am guilty of loving! God forbid should you ever be put in a situation where you have to dislike your parents! I hope it never happens to you.
if his father was half a man he would either die in his filth like mirza ahmadi did. or disown him for good.
ahmadi its not me discussing my family here... so cut the crap.
Dear Mundyaa,
God bless you and your family. Lots of love and happiness.
This world would be a better place with more people like NY...
che che che I am appalled at some of the remarks made above! NYA was asking for some real advice, not some cut downs based on religious differences. Advice is advice and personal differences need not be brought into play, as one usually gives advice based on their own experiences etc. NYA, much of the advice given was quite good. Of course,
it is hard for parents to realize that their children are also parents, and many times that can lead to conflicts. Aging parents sometime feel as if their usefulness is lessened. If they are coming from a different country for a visit, they may especially feel they have to still exert their parental rights-and it's even harder to realize that their own child is now grown and a parent,too, since they aren't around on a daily basis. However, you seem like you are ready to enjoy your visit with your father and ready to sit back and watch your dad settle into more of a grandfather's role, than a father's. Good Luck!
Assalamo-oAlaikum
Even u don,t have a good relations with him but he is your father and first of all u r a muslim and guest is NAIMAT.
Always remember kids have a good memory , whatever u give ,em they will return to u so be careful for your future.
You must show respect to your parent so your kids will give u the same(inshallah)
Rose
...Try to Pretend as his Son and not his Dad ...it usually works :)
HI NY...
KIDDA?
THE MAIN THING U NEED TO REMEMBER IS RESPECT...AFTER ALL HES URE DAD... PARENTS HAVE THE RIGHT TO SAY OR DO WHATEVER THEY WANT TO THEIR CHILD (WITHIN LIMITS OFCOURSE...AS IN RULING OUT ABUSE N' STUFF)...NO PARENT IN MY OPINION WOULD WANT OR DO BAD FOR THEIR CHILD...AFTER ALL U ARE A PART OF THEM. THERE ARE ALWAYS LOTS OF THINGS U DONT LIKE THEM SAYING OR DOING...BUT FURTHER ON IN LIFE (MAYBE WHEN URE A PARENT URESELF?!?!???!) U'LL REALISE IT WOZ FOR URE OWN GOOD(IM SURE U WILL!)...
GIVE THE GUY A BREAK... AND EVEN IF HE DOES SAY SOMETHING U DONT LIKE... JUST DONT PAY ANY ATTENTION TO IT(ARGUEING "NEVER" WORKS!!!!). FORGIVE N' FORGET...OK? TAKE CARE N' GOOD LUCK!
BE A GOOD BOY N' LOOK AFTER URE PA!