Re: Men coloring their hair
I see your point Mamaof3, but I think sporadic grey (not the salt peppa) shows that a man is untidy and not taking care of himself. A nice shade of black that flows with the rest of the hair gives that sleek look. You also have to look your age as a couple. I do not want to look like my wife's uncle if she is taking care of herself and I am not.
I dread those desi couples where the husBAND has his head in a bowl of nihari and garam naan and the wifey is all gorgeous looking munching on salad.