Re: Marrying older guy
erm, i'm saying that's what some of older men want when they choose younger wives.
you mention a 'perfect relationship' too. i didn't say anything about that.
my friend's mum was something like 20 years younger than her husband, he passed away and now she's completely dependent on her children. when her husband was alive he did everything for her and with her and she can't even go and buy groceries on her own. i'm sure she was very happy while he was alive but now he's not there she has no confidence to do anything on her own.
anyway, i'm not saying there is anything wrong with this set-up, i just remarked that some people specifically go for this.
are we forgetting that the prophet's first wife was significantly older than him? anything can work, it depends on the individuals.