Except a lot of guys DONT shave and do support talibeards. Why are they not ridiculed?
Of course there are. You know who many women agree with a Talibeard? Not many!
Re: Married Women and Body Hair...
Ummm...arent women supposed to groom and maintain the nether regions for namaz?
Men and Women both have need to groom themselves up. There is something called personal hygiene. For men pubic as well as arm pit hair must be removed and i guess same goes with women.
Btw i did have chest hair..removed it long time ago when i begun working out..so no more.
they should? does it have anything to do with religion or tradition or just the beauty thing?
She meant it as a religious thing. And like Reha said, you're supposed to clean the nether regions and your underarms for namaz....
She meant it as a religious thing. And like Reha said, you're supposed to clean the nether regions and your underarms for namaz....
But you were talking about the rest of body hair - anything that makes you look 'manly'.
That's a load of crap. Nowhere in Islam dose it say that. The only time I've heard such nonsense was in Pakistan in a parlour.
Only pubic hair has been instructed to be removed/trimmed for both men and women. The same applies to trimming nails.
Re: Married Women and Body Hair...
UUUUHHHHH! what a horrible topic. why do peple need to discuss such dirty things. dont they know what is hygienic or not. I agree to Nadz. But i've seen men are dirty......
But you were talking about the rest of body hair - anything that makes you look 'manly'.
That's a load of crap. Nowhere in Islam dose it say that. The only time I've heard such nonsense was in Pakistan in a parlour.
Only pubic hair has been instructed to be removed/trimmed for both men and women. The same applies to trimming nails.
Hey, I'm just telling you guys what I heard from this girl! She's quite religious, and was totally against all hair removal until she went to Al-Huda for some aalimah course or something, and then the next time I saw her, she'd started getting it done. And this was her explanation....
Women, keep yourselves groomed at all times..you never know when you might bump in to Johnny Depp, Imran Khan.
Get it done for yourself!
Keep the bedroom/bathroom talk** IN** the bedroom/bathroom
Its a matter of perspective really. Something you find disgusting could be interesting to another. Like for example, a camel’s raw bollocks are a sub-Saharan delicacy.
Now on the subject, the discussing-aunt’s-pubes thing almost made me throw up :k: I find body hair on women quite repelling. But like some married ones said, one gets to see his woman in a lot worse condition than just having some unremoved body hair - I guess it wouldn’t matter much when it comes to that.
Re: Married Women and Body Hair...
ewww.... its not about men!! its about hygine!! especailly pubic and underarms areas!! .....
if the husband doesnt care... will these women stop taking showers too? :s
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TLK, that IS SICK.
If men like it hairy, then... EWWWWWWWWW
And on top of that, WHY ARE WE WASTING OUR TIME WITH THIS WAXING if y'all like it better au naturale?
His choice is his choice. If he likes his woman hairy then so be it. I dont see the yuck factor there.
Pyari c Guria 
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What do you do..
Those who say their husbands don't mind one bit if they don't shave legs, wax etc. might it not be that the husbands would prefer hairless but are just too polite to say so?? Like if wife puts on a lot of weight and hubby might not say anything but then sits there checking out all the skinny girls who walk past..obviously I'm **not* saying it's right tho*
Re: Married Women and Body Hair...
Imran Khan
is a man who has no respect for women, no respect for his word, no respect for his wife.
and he still has respect..
Imran Khan
is a man who has no respect for women, no respect for his word, no respect for his wife.
and he still has respect..
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What does that have to do with women not shaving their legs?
Why is your uncle sick in this case? Did he come to you and share his turn ons? Was he expecting/demanding it from some other woman, some one other than his wife?
Something that he liked and expected from his wife was his business. Just because his wife decided to share it with others does not mean that he is a sick person now.
Exactly.
Those who say their husbands don't mind one bit if they don't shave legs, wax etc. might it not be that the husbands would prefer hairless but are just too polite to say so?? Like if wife puts on a lot of weight and hubby might not say anything but then sits there checking out all the skinny girls who walk past..obviously I'm **not* saying it's right tho*
^ thats kinda sad if husband can't be honest with his wife?
Re: Married Women and Body Hair…
Yeah, well, if I had a fetish of eating up little children, I probably wouldn’t confess that to my husband.
Some things are better left unsaid.
Just appreciate it when she doesn’t shave. No need to tell her something so gross.
Urgh. If my husband ever tells me… :pcg:
I’m just going to slap him.
Re: Married Women and Body Hair...
^ if he ever tells you what turns him on?
seems to me there are several issues here:
the issue of grooming
how much of bedroom talk outside the bedroom is "acceptable"
and why what anyone else does in their bedroom is anyone else's business.
You really have no right to call a guy who tells his wife what turns him on sick because she decided to brag about it, nor dictate what he should or shouldn't say to his wife.
Different things turn different people on. What may seem "sick" to you may be normal to everyone else.
Re: Married Women and Body Hair…
slapping yr hubby for being honest is so unfair:nono:
Re: Married Women and Body Hair...
I think the point many married women are trying to make is that to some extent the mindset changes from "ewww, grosss...she has some hair on her legs" to "its my wife and I love her for much more than that".
This is hard to explain really. Its kind of like...when you're not married...you want your man to look good, dress well, belly in, hair groomed, well styled, etc. After marriage, he will still look good to you but you also see what went into maintaining that image for you. You will see him waking up with morning breath, he might not shower for two days in a row, stubble, grungy on the weekends, etc. You dont stop loving him but that love mutates into something else a lot more solid. Most of the time, not always.
When you see your spouse throwing up, sick, pregnant, giving birth, laboring with child, stretch marks, etc. A tiny bit of hair here and there...isnt really a deal breaker.