unmarried men are gonna be all ‘ugh gross’ etc etc.
until one is in a relationship that is based on more than looks and see each other in all sorts of states, one will never appreciate how this thinking changes.
being married means you are responsible for a lot more than just yourself so often times things like this can end up taking a back seat and you don’t even notice.
all i know is that i did not change from before marriage to after. i wore makeup everyday when i was out of the house before, i wear makeup every day now. i didn’t dress like a ‘new dulhan’ before and i didn’t after. i do whatever i need to do for myself.