Married men & taank jhaank

njgal · August 20, 2009, 5:50pm

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so what is the point... you really cannot control what other women wear (desi or not)

If a women comes into my house wearing a tight fitted shirt - I really can't say cover yourself or other men will stare at you....

or in TLK case - that you will get one "karakeedaar" jhappaar

chanda_kh · August 20, 2009, 5:50pm

^yes married guys, married uncles, married men in their 80s! seriously! everyone does it....and is apparently considered normal..or blamed on the girls..even if the girl is NOT wearing sleevless..or a low cut dress..et cetera et cetera!

TLK · August 20, 2009, 5:51pm

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Ramadan is coming, shaitans will be locked .. I am on 30 days vacation , what do you expect

_MuNiYa · August 20, 2009, 5:54pm

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^^ wah wah
thread should be wonderful we've got expert in the area replying.

Aish · August 20, 2009, 5:56pm

I said sometimes because not all men are like that, obviously. But the ones that are, will stare no matter what and their true nature will come out no matter what

chanda_kh · August 20, 2009, 5:57pm

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if only there was a way to clean the scum of the earth every ramadan!!

more of the same issue..
Married Men Staring At Women? - HealthBoards Bulletin Board

it has A LOT to do with respect. When and if men learn to respect women of all ages, they may cure THEMSELVES of the disorder.

Pakilarka · August 20, 2009, 5:57pm

okay so every married guy, married uncle or married man in his 80's u met, in any dress. They simply started staring at u ???

TLK · August 20, 2009, 5:57pm

Thanks for entering the thread.. now we have two …

chanda_kh · August 20, 2009, 5:59pm

OTHER WOMEN! not just ME...seriously..i am talking about a general issue...not entirely personal...goodness!
*please dont misread posts.

sheyn · August 20, 2009, 5:59pm

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TLK · August 20, 2009, 6:00pm

CK, please dont post links from other bulletin Boards, for two reasons ..

Links from other forums are not encouraged
This thread will become a link posting frenzy as someone will come and can post a link about women exposing themselves on purpose for guys to stare

Aish · August 20, 2009, 6:01pm

Why are you getting so defensive? We're talking in GENERAL, and we're not saying every man is like this

chanda_kh · August 20, 2009, 6:01pm

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and i hardly think married men staring and oogling girls, women, or boys is funny.

_MuNiYa · August 20, 2009, 6:02pm

couldnt leave my partner in crime alone - now could I?

Pakilarka · August 20, 2009, 6:03pm

Actually the way u were exaggerating the issue, i thought u had really bad experience so i was gona recommned u moving out and trying a new place to live coz its not normal every where.

njgal · August 20, 2009, 6:03pm

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It's official - I don't understand men

PhatBalongri · August 20, 2009, 6:05pm

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I am guessing taan jhaank = checking someone out

NO IT IS NOT OKAY.

But does it happen? Absolutely. And a lot of times men can't help it.

Its kinda like asking why a pooh is attracted to honey? Okay, pick a better analogy but you get my point.

NJMasti · August 20, 2009, 6:05pm

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On Sunday I was in NY wearing full LONG sleeves summer top n' jeans.... I was working, so after work I was suppose to meet my family there. So I wait by the corner block for them, trying to look busy concentrating on my cell phone game... cause I did not want to stare at open space...

I "feel" someone just pass by and I kinda look up. It was a desi unkil ji. He smiled. I give a small smile back and went back to my game.

I had NO idea what ever the unkil ji was thinking.

He makes a second round... like a U turn and now it's too close to ignore.

So I look up again... he gives a BIGGER smile! and I am like WHAT THE HECK!

did my "return" of smile to an UNKIL JI mean an invitation to something? He sure looked like he wanted to take me somewhere :(

I definitely CANNOT and DO NOT pass as "slut" - no no no no no no no wayyyyyyyyyyy lol

I'm just thinking HOW DARE of this Unkil ji to hit on me!?

Damn !

Next time I am just going to be SO FREAKIN RUDE and not smile back at ALL.

Aish · August 20, 2009, 6:06pm

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it's almost Ramadan and I sincerely pray for all you brainless men out there. May Allah (SWT) provide you with adequate brains and help you sort out your issues iA. Ameen.

Pakilarka · August 20, 2009, 6:06pm

ahem, coz u guys r goin little too far.... Having guys staring at covered gals isnt common !