Married and Studying

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you should go for it!! ok and it is good to know that your husband is supporting you in all of this :) good luck with whatever you decide to do mizz jee :)

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i think yea u shuld go for it..its nt hard but costs time and is challenging defo ..once u have started it ..u got to prove dat u really can do it

well im jst 18 right now....and gttng married dis year in september ..so far i have jst dne my a-levels..but after wedding im gng to apply for uni for a law course degree..as my in laws dnt have a problem with my decision....

i belive u can do it if u got sumne who will support ur decision..talk to ur partner before u make up ur mind...or another way is ..right dwn the advantages and disadvantages down ..and weigh them up at the end

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inshallah the course iwll start in sep which is obviously a long time away bt sumthiong to look forward too now since it is a distance course and i will have a personal tutor do u girls think it iwll be too hard , like wt if i so do not get it.

i know i am more of a study at home person , i totally doze of in talks bt i can study well from books which will be an advantage well it had been in GCSE'S and a levels.

dunno abt degree level work. hmm

bt i so wnt to do this man , ill so proud to be an LLB at the end of it. hahah

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I would definately say that you should go for it..even encourage you to take th university onsite classes rather then the online ones as there s definately no substitute to the lectures that they provide in classes, and other thing is when you have to sit through a class , you are bound to absorb a lot more instead of spending more time alone studying. This I do mean not the generic courses but the ones that are major specific. I took a lot of the distance learning ones while my daughter was young and those only he generic core ones.
You can most definately take courses while your husband is at work, and be back before he is depending on how far your college is.Also taking 2 days off in between like most classes r offered MWF or Tuesday Thursday's so you can take ccourses with break in between and then concentrate in home and your relationship.:)Good Luck!

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I agree with Ask99 actually, In class courses are much better then distance learning, especially for your core courses that are major specific. It really helps to listen to the in class discussions, the interaction, the networking, the help and you can better understand as professor gives examples in class, esp if it is any accounting/finance/math type of class. Plus a number of classes require groupwork/projects/presentations...and its better if you are on campus. From your posts it seems as if its just you & your husband, no kids & no in-laws. You should be able to manage taking some on campus courses as well as DL.

Zakat
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well i thin u shud go fer it. the best thing is that ur sister is with you so u can openly talk to her nd tell her that it mite be tuff for u so u just need her to be there for u. and im sure she will understand. but i think Allahmian ka naaml lekar u shud go with it. nd you also have ur husband suporting u!!!
INSHALLAH ull be fine :)

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my going to be hubby thinks that studies is the only way where he can keep me busy when he is out...as otherwise i will waste time on ebay and in market halls hehehe:p

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Dare I add to Pir ji's wisdom?

is it a walk in the park? not at all,
is it doable? by all means
is it worth it? Absolutely!