nia needs to grow up and know how to make valid arguments.
maybe she is using this as a clumsy, rude and imprudent practice trial.
also goes to show, thru her own posts, what nia is capable of - at her best.
Now people should take the critisicm :~) - I didn't sit there and curse her out which will be totally out of the line even though that was the intention but as you can see my langauge was very neat and clean.
I do think we should keep this forum filled with really good question not some survey crap that goes on every day on gupshup. I am sure you will agree with me on this one saima. Gupshup is not a survey poll for people :~)
^^Yes Nia now I'll just have to delete stuff out of the thread. Let's get back on topic with Dushwari's problem. I don't think anyone but Mama has given any constructive advice so far. I can relate to her problem except the architect is a surgeon and he works probably more than the architect. I just call friends, family. Hang out with my kids and friends. Have my own hobbies and interests. Then when hubby is home, we talk. I ask about his day and he tells me about what is on his mind. Maybe Dushwari needs to just let him know that she is a support for him and he just doesn't want to burden her. (If this is about Dushwari.)
Dushwari, if you are looking for serious advice, follow what Mamaof3 has told you.
And if these are the “gharay gharaey mafroozay” then please give us a break for sometime.
Threads like these have started to haunt me in my last month
thanks Mama of 3. and yes, like witchdoc i hope there is no sarcasm.
as i am not in a marital contract yet, yes, all these scenarios are hypothetical and hope is that all interested and creative GSers and also someone in that predicament/situation can see these at GS and post their opinion or what they would do if theye were married to a doctor, a less talker, an architect & any other profession, which i might present
in the future.
& yes, Mama of 3, silence is sometimes, is thebest thing to do in marital affairs.
Wow, you aren't even married and you come out with the weirdest hypotheticals. SaimaNY, while I agree that personal attacks are out of order, I DO think that things are getting a little bit ridiculous. You don't see anyone else posting every other day with the most bizarre hypothetical questions like:
What would you do if your potential spouse has a mole on the back of his third knuckle?
or
If you marry a taxidermist, would it bother you to have stuffed animals in your living room?
or
If you marry a guy with black hair, are you worried that his head will get hot in the summer?
I mean, COME ON! I apologize for saying this but either she's doing this on purpose to get a rise out of people, or she is a true imbecile.
i am sorry but i had to come back here and say something to dushwari
Dushwar behan
i don’t think you want a man you want something that you can fit to your taste, texture, color, ETC.
Why dont you go to Aunt Annie’s bakery and ask them to make a cookie for you. Just the way you want it. in a shape of a man 6 ft tall and all the things you want. they can even put a tag of PHD on it for you :~)
We all have certain expectations and certain things we like and dislike but this is an extreme case here. I seriously feel bad for you i think you need a friend and a man badly in your life those hormones are kicking pretty bad at this point…
…ustaad
