Re: married an architect?
I feel bad for ms Dushwari, it seems that she has a busy professional hubby who is so dedicated to his work that there isnt enough time left over for his wife and she is trying to make it easier to facilitate communication. Lets not beat her up for that as it is an admirable goal.
Ms Dushwari, just try to study his profession a bit. When you're home and he's at work, use google to find out more about his profession. Ask him to talk about his day, about the projects he's working on and let him know that you're interested even if you dont understand it all. Realize too though that sometimes he needs to leave work at work and just be home without having to think or talk about it. In that case, sometimes silence is golden and sometimes he'll appreciate hearing about YOUR day and the things that interest you. I hope this helps.