Re: Marriage…
Replace cracked hands with under eye circles, mental fatigue and the stress of maintaining a good life through his work for his family. 
I can understand…lol. But trust me…the craving of your times comes out of love. So, if I were you…I’d at least give her one day…one evening…even 2 hours of just you two. Its a good thing…once you have kids you won’t have time to breathe let alone spend time together.