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Re: """Marriage""

neither is better.
Both require commitment from the parties to make it work.
without commitment , hardwork etc neither can work.

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There isn’t a set answer to this question because everyone has a different preference with different reasons.. I thought that was quite obvious :hmmm:

whether love or arranged, happiness in marriage is totally a matter of chance.

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Swings and roundabouts... both have their advantages and disadvantages... I could never have had a totally arranged marriage cos I prefer being in control and my parent's choices were too different to mine (usually really geeky looking which my Mum thought looks 'decent'), for others they prefer having the stress taken out of their hands and trust their family to find them someone compatible. Either way is good as long as the ppl actually getting married are happy..

Re: """Marriage""

I would say either marriage should be fine, i mean marriage is a sacred bond between 2 ppl which can only survive if there is respect and commitment from both sides warna kaisee bhi shaadi ho problems face karegee, but personally i would like to know the person a little before i take the plunge thus i feel i lean towards the love marriage side.

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It doesn't matter how you get there. It's what you do once you're in the marriage that defines it.

By the way, arranged marriage does not equal marrying strangers or giving up your rights, control, and brain when determining who you will marry.

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^lol :)

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Arrange is good one bcoz in Love marriage both person make extra expectations and after marriage its hard to be lovers and they become just husband and wife and its very painful especially for girls who wants to same attention like calling all day, talking on phone whole night (now personally face to face) but these things are applicable only before marriage but after marriage things change quickly.

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Guy should do both, arrange and love. Now girls have a problem.

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1 Love and 1 arranged.

Love marriage obviously. Because you marry someone who you love.