Re: Man marries four women to prove ex-wife wrong
Not so cupcake. The root cause was to prove to the woman that he is of some value. Most if not all women believe that they are the best thing that could happen to a man. Specifically in the case of the man they marry, even though he may have settled. The women in question when stating that no other woman would marry him was an issue of ego and self-worth for herself. Otherwise why would she make that statement? She wanted to prove to the man that she was the best he could do. As most women do, she underestimated the man she married. He has proven he can in fact do much better than her. 4 times at that.
Secondly the assumption that he went in for the wrong reasons, is an assumption on your part. Not a statement of fact or reality. It is mainly the female ego that assumes that he went in it for the wrong reasons. Yes he wanted to prove his ex-wife wrong. But who is to say he is not a good husband or a good father? Women these days are normally the root cause of divorce.
The rest of your post is merely conjecture based on the premise that the wife is right. One woman can be right. But 4 can be wrong to marry him. Odd, that just isn’t logical at all.
In reality after 23 years one does have power over the other person. But it is the wife in this case who felt the need to prove her own self-worth by saying no other woman would marry him. That smacks of deep levels of insecurity and a desire not to see her former husband happy.
In other words a vindictive *****.