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na nothing, whats up with the multinick?
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mingling is HARAM... :o
actually its not haram done the right way...
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if u have ur nikkah done--nothing wrong. but if its just a "baath pakki" or w/e then i'd say its not that good to talk often
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i agree wid chandni:)
and if the guy is cumin over i dun t hink theres anyfin rong wid dat…but as u sed to…“mingle” i belive thas wrong..
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i dont think so…i mean you guys are not going out alone…i think its perfectly okee for him to come to your house and spend time with you and your family…
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^exactly…and THIS is not haram!
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Depends on your definition of "Love Talkies" and "Mingling".
Talking to your fiance or baat pakki is fine. You are only getting to know them to better understand them. General talk is just fine. It sounds horrible to start living with a person without talking to them at all. A simpe friendship with ur hubby-to-be is just fine.
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thank you everyone now answer this
"Is it fair to compare ur ex with ur current?"
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aisha, you should not even have an Ex at your age.
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if there is sure footed regard an love and trust and excitement for getting together, then no matter what corner of the world you are in, your lover, and future spouse will skip, hop, run, fall, and get back again and get to you.
goes for women and men alike.
intimacy will develop only when people are closer together.
honest and open communication only increases affinity,
even when prospective couple argues, both sides can learn to gain each other's perspective and but the ideal goal must always remain to be along side each other to soon get married.
it is a matter of very deep trust and confidence in each other.
true and pure love is always merciful and not egotistical. it is only logical.
so, no. speaking to the person you are planning to spend your life with, is a good thing. it is not a bad thing.
it is funny how people generalize things because they are so insecure and self-abusers of a relationship, who are only confused and poisoned with misgivings.
and that is fine. that reflects their own personal inability to be able to give their selves equally into a relationship.
through communication, you can see how strong your and that person's relationship is.
if talking leads to inferring erroneously about that person, it is your test to undo that learning and the manner in which you take that perception, and get to know the person, more and then some more, and then more.
if true love is there, the negatives will be either improved or over looked, because when the whole person is seen, in a positive light, then nothing should stop the two from appreciating each other as two human beings, with the good and the bad, and willing to get together to make life better TOGETHER :)
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mingle all u want....nothing wrong in that...except going all the way that would be too much yeah.....what do u mean by "MINGLE?" comparing to see what u want out of a man is ok...but if ur constantly comparing and thiking ur ex was better or ur new man is lacking stsuff....then yeah its not wrong but ur in the wrong relationship
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OKay this is what I think:
get to know the guy after all if your both gonna spend the rest of ur lives together, it’s better to have a knowledge of each others likes and dislikes before hand:)
Personally think it wud be fine for him to call u, email u, but then coming over is a different matter,
ur parents might have problems with it:naraz:- but if they dont mind then I guess it shouldnt be a problem
Never, and I mean never compare ur ex to ur current…
my friend did it recently and her fiance broke up with her:teary1:
Okay now my views are from a unmarried girls point of view, others might have other views:halo:
PS aaish I’ve seen ur pics,
little young to be seriuos about a guy isnt it:faizy:
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ha ha starcity i am 18 lol