Lost Your Child....For a Little While....?

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I can relate. Once I lost both my daughters in the mall. They were 4 and 5 years old. They were playing and I was sitting on the chair nearby watching them when I got pinged from work. Was looking at the email for less than a minute when I turned my head to see that both of them are not where they were playing. I was running everywhere and calling their names and was totally freaked out. Thankfully they were looking for me and I found them coming around the corner holding each others hand and crying. Seeing them like that just broke something inside of me and I hugged them and started crying. I am also very paranoid father so after that day I make sure that I tell them where I am sitting so they don’t assume that I am not there and I never look at my phone when I am watching them. To this day when I think about it my heart pounds out of control and I get tears in my eyes.

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I remember once we lost our youngest brother when he was may be 6/7 years old at Tariq Road on Chaand Raat while shopping and crowded like hell. Those 40 min were the most agonizing of us sibling’s lives as our dad was not with us. Being the youngest in us 7 siblings he’s literally the life of our hearts. So all of us 2 siblings started frantically searching for him in middle of the crowd. When suddenly we heard the announcement by police calling my mom’s name, the dress she was wearing and our address. Apparently my brother went to the police stall him self, provided them all the details and asked them to make the announcement for my mom. The police walay praised him so much and told us that he was very calm and was ready to drive them to our home if needed.

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My mom lost me in Liberty market in Lahore when I was 4. She almost had a heart attack and was running around frantically trying to find me. An hour later and she assumed I had been kidnapped and she created a huge scene. Turns out I was sitting and eating snacks with the dukaan wala uncle :halo: He returned me after he realised someone was looking for me, otherwise I think he would have adopted me lol.

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When we were kids…the apartment building we lived in had porches in the back. I was playing on our which was a joint one with our neighbor who was a family friend of ours. Everyday, my mom and aunti would cook together and keep each other company while we played on the porch.

One day, a car drove up…a man started gesturing to me…trying to get me to come out to him. He waved candy, money and some toy in the window of his car in an attempt to get me to come out of the building courtyard. From where my mom was…she couldn’t have seen the entire road…just the spot I was sitting in. I was so terrified…I stayed in place and couldn’t even move. A few seconds later, my mom looked over and called my name loudly…and the guy drove off like he had cops behind him.

I think about that day and shudder with horror…how a split second can change our entire lives.

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^ that is frightening!!

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really ? I ways saw pakistanise running away from dogs.

Title of your thread is upsetting. You should change it by adding for “little while”

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When I was 3 I was waiting in school for my dad to pick me up.then I saw some older kids (6-8) were going out of school I followed them.
I was walking behind them.one by one they all turned into different streets.and I kept walking. I saw a corner shop and went there and stand there. One guy came on bike asked me yahan kyu bethee ho beta? (I didnt reply) he then asked ammi aboo kahan hai? ( I didnt reply) she asked shopkeeper about me shopkeeper said he dont know me. He opened my school my amd saw my school name on my notebook.he took me and brought on his bike to school where my mother was crying like anything front of school gate :smack: and dad were asking everyone on streets about me.that guy came and explained my parents how and where he found me.
my mom said it still makes her shudder when she remember this. She said hamari koI naiki kaam aa gae jo tum mil gae ya phir un dino logon mai eeman tha khof e khuda tha.

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main bhi ek dafa ek choozen bechne wale ke peeche chala gaya tha and then my Khala saw me from the window of her class room. My amma distributed boondi singhar (urdu main tarjuma aap karen). lols

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Some of this makes me wanna cry. So scary to imagine what a mother or father goes through. I am not a mom, but my mom did lose me at malls when i was younger and i was SOOOO afraid. alhamdullilah, ours is a great and safe city so she used to tell me to borrow someone’s phone or go to the info counter if we ever got lost. whenever i got lost, i would shout ‘mama mama’ and my mom would be beside me the next minute. of if i ever wandered off, mom would call out to me and i would come running back to her.

however, whenever my mom ‘lost’ my younger sister, i would get sooooooooooo afraid. horrible thoughts used to cross mind. my youngest sister is 5 yrs younger than me, and even losing her when i was 8 yrs and old and she 3 yrs old, was mind numbing for me. i was a very careful sibling.

a few times, sister would wander off in malls to another aisle, and i would freak out. (me age 7-12 so just imagine what a scaredy cat i was) my mom, on the other hand, would be chilled as she knew my sister was nearby. she used to give ek awaaz and sister would come back running.

however, a few years ago, family and i were at Hollywood Boulevard, downtown Los Angeles with my cousins, khalas and other relatives. it was extremely crowded. suddenly, my 5 yr old cousin went missing. we were all TERRIFIED. traced back our steps, shouted for etc. finally found her a few mins later crying, holding the character Shrek’s hand. it was a horrible incident for my mom, khala and khaloo.

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Also, always always remind your kids that if they get lost or if their mom or dad cant seem to be found, stay at that exact spot and do not move. That’s what my mom always told me- that she will always be back at the same spot where we last were together. Many a times, kids panic and start walking off elsewhere and thus when parents return to the last seen spot, they dont see their kid and chaos happens.

Stories above also reminded me of a night in my bachpan when we were in Tariq Road, Karachi on an extremely crowded night and I heard someone, perhaps the police making an announcement for a lost child. I still remember that I felt so afraid and shocked that a child got lost in a huge crowded street and announcements were being made for him/her. Scary indeed.

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This is.very disturbing nd I’m crying my eyes out here.

Ya Allah please keep our kids safe

Alhumdulilah this hsnnt happened to me just thinking about it is making me bawl my eyes out

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Alright I’ve got a creepy story.

My mom had sent my brother out to return some bartans to my aunt who lived around the corner. It wasn’t uncommon to do this, my aunt would often send her son out for errands to the nearby grocery store and her kids would also walk to the school. Well my mom had been looking out the apartment building, waiting for my brother’s return. She was both puzzled and worried that it was taking him longer than it should. So she hurriedly ran down the stairs and found my brother had entered the building and was on his way up to our floor. When she found him, my brother told her how a man, a complete stranger, was trying to beckon my brother over to him saying he had something that my father had given him. The guy got scared and ran off when he heard my mom’s footsteps as she ran down the stairs. Allah ka laakh shukar that my mom went down at just the right time. Had she been even a few seconds late, God knows what could have happened. It goes to show that you can’t let your guard down even when you’re living in a relatively safe area in a land where the laws are very, very strict.

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so many close calls…it’s frightening!

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This thread is very disturbing and making me very emotional and dreaming about losing.my.kids

Allah protect our children ad keep them safe
Ameen

Delete.thread.now.:frowning: :frowning:

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ameen

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For those of you who are familiar with Grapevine Mills in the DFW area, well my 3 yr old son got lost there years ago.

It was a Saturday and GV Mills was a new mall at the time. It was packed. Myself, and my SIL out with children. she went up ahead with my son, I saw him walking with her. She was not used to having someone so little with her. Well he went up ahead with her. This is where the Rainforest Cafe is located. A few yrs back, the Rainforest Cafe hallway lead directly outside to the parking lot. Now it is Last Call Niemans, I think.

I browsed around at the store I was in, and then started walking to catch up with the others. (it is an indoor horseshoe shaped mall). I walked, and walked, and still did not come across them. Finally I saw them, I had walked almost halfway around the mall. My first instinct was to look out for my son, and i did not see him. My heart was in my mouth; urgently I asked my SIL where my son was. She looked completely surprised and said "I left him with you ". I could’ve strangled her, and told her 'You said you were taking him with you, and i saw him walking with you ".

I told her to hold onto to the other children, and ran back from where I had come from, the others running behind me. I scanned the crowd as best as I could looking for my three yr old, worse case scenarios were popping in my head. In my mind I was trying to remember what he had been wearing, my mind was was blank. As I ran, I tried to find a security guard. Where are they when you need them?

Almost reached the Rainforest Cafe area where I had last seen him, and finally a security guard. This is the era of pagers, not cell phones. Quickly relayed to him what had happened, he spoke to someone over the walkie talkie and he told me to follow him. He asked me what my son was wearing, his name . Gave him the info. What seemed like an eternity, he took me to a hidden door and window and said we have a little boy matching your description, but he is saying his name is “ABC”. I laughed, my son was saying his Daddy’s name, and not his own name. My son had seen me, and was saying 'Mummy" behind the window. I told them he had a birthmark on a certain part of his body. They checked and were convinced I was his mother.

Another security guard brought my son and I remember holding onto him for dear life. Apparently, my son had wondered off towards the Rainforest Cafe exit/entrance and had exited the doors , (one of the multiple entrances to the mall). An older lady entering the mall had come across him, and took him to the nearest security office. I don’t want to think what could’ve happened, just so, so thankful that my son was safe and sound and unhurt. .