then change the topic please.
The biggest thing that puts me off is people who show off (their wealth, education, etc.), complaining about their parents/parents-in-laws, bad-mouthing their spouse (keep it private plz), and rudeness in general.
For the first time in my life, I was completely put off by the behavior of this person I met for the first time, within an hour I was like “My God, whats wrong with this female” … her child was totally badtameez, went around hitting and pushing other kids, said shut-up to an adult, hit me when I was trying to take juice out of the fridge (apparently he wanted his mummy dear to get it) and all that she did was giggle and say “sorry, he’s an only child and very laadla” … yeah like I’ve given birth to 10 children 
… God, BBCue, what have you done… I’m seething now (you got me thinking about her again)… I don’t blame the child, I blame the mother, utterly moronic woman.