I totally don't get the 'why is everyone staring/hitting on her, there must be something wrong with her' philosophy at all! The implication always is that if a woman is attracting negative male attention, the fault invariable lies with her attitude, and people seldom stop to consider the male 'reaction' to female 'enticement'.
I don't understand what makes men think that if a woman is 'licentious' it gives them a licence to treat them whichever way they please!
Okay, maybe a certain woman is promiscous, but if you go ahead and hit on her or have a fling with her, in my humble opinion you are just as guilty! And no matter what, no one has the right to pass moral judgment on others! Funnily enough, people who have no moral scruples themselves are quick to jump at other's throats for being 'immoral'.
And it's interesting how majority of you is so 'outraged' and 'shocked' when a woman or girl is stoned to death. And all of you condemn it as a barbaric act etc. And yet, here are a lot of people needllessly flinging 'mud' on a 15 year old kid. None of you knows what she is like, none of you has probably even met her in person. And yet most of you are very quick to jump to the conclusion that there is something fundamentally wrong with her behaviour to have invited the attention of a married guy! Isn't that kind of 'bashing' even worse than stoning to death? In my opinion it is even more savage and barbaric.
People, please stop passing moral judgment on others! Regardless of whether she sought this attention or not, the married guy is responsilbe for the way he acted!
Sweet heart, I feel sorry for you. You either ARE a 15 year old or you have the mind of one. You present yourself as a juvenile thug what with your brother's "crew" and other nonsense like that. All children enjoy the idea of being powerful in the sense that they can bring the beat down on anyone that crosses them, we've all been there, we've all fantasized, but that's a child's fantasy, grown ups move on.
The reason married guys or any guys hit on you is because they don't respect you, they don't respect you because you don't respect yourself (this is entirely based on how you present yourself here on GS). You obviously think that you're all that and a bag of samosas as well, most of your posts in some way indicate how "hawt" you are and how guys can't get enough of you.
If you REALLY don't enjoy this sort of negative attention (i think you do), then I would say that you should clean up your act and stop hanging out with thugs and stop pretending that you're some type of "gangsta". Bottom line, you're a child, you need to grow up.
And picking up on a poor 15 year old kid is very grown up attitude, right? You don't even know her, do you? And yet you sound so convinced that she enjoys all the negative attention! Are you psychic or what?
And picking up on a poor 15 year old kid is very grown up attitude, right? You don't even know her, do you? And yet you sound so convinced that she enjoys all the negative attention! Are you psychic or what?
Hey man, go read all her other posts and then come argue with me.
Darlin’, this is a discussion board, not a “comment only if you agree with me or if you have nice things to say” board. She invited people into the situation by asking for thoughts, besides, what are you, her lawyer?
I wasn’t being rude, just honest. Sometimes truth hurts. What is it with people these days, they want everything sugar coated and can’t take the truth as it’s spoken.
I totally don't get the 'why is everyone staring/hitting on her, there must be something wrong with her' philosophy at all! The implication always is that if a woman is attracting negative male attention, the fault invariable lies with her attitude, and people seldom stop to consider the male 'reaction' to female 'enticement'.
I don't understand what makes men think that if a woman is 'licentious' it gives them a licence to treat them whichever way they please!
Okay, maybe a certain woman is promiscous, but if you go ahead and hit on her or have a fling with her, in my humble opinion you are just as guilty! And no matter what, no one has the right to pass moral judgment on others! Funnily enough, people who have no moral scruples themselves are quick to jump at other's throats for being 'immoral'.
And it's interesting how majority of you is so 'outraged' and 'shocked' when a woman or girl is stoned to death. And all of you condemn it as a barbaric act etc. And yet, here are a lot of people needllessly flinging 'mud' on a 15 year old kid. None of you knows what she is like, none of you has probably even met her in person. And yet most of you are very quick to jump to the conclusion that there is something fundamentally wrong with her behaviour to have invited the attention of a married guy! Isn't that kind of 'bashing' even worse than stoning to death? In my opinion it is even more savage and barbaric.
People, please stop passing moral judgment on others! Regardless of whether she sought this attention or not, the married guy is responsilbe for the way he acted!
oiiiiiiiii
AM NOT 15 YRS OLD
AM MUCH OLDER
aahmed iz bein a dumass n thinkin im 15
but then again i dun care w/e that uncle thinkz
OI
mr aahmed aka uncle G in da house
my thread wz abt married guyz hittin on poor innocent lil gyalz
n ur givin me all this bull abt y wud guyz hit on me n that am lyin n hav a big imagination n the bs goes on and on...
UR SUCHA FRIGGIN HYPOCRITE
i wz jus lukin at another thread rite now
wen i came across 1 of ur desp n not 2 mention DISGUSTING comments that u made 2 khumar
"KHUMAR, you said it girl frieeend snapsnap. You're my kind of girl, too bad I'm already married. God, I hope you're a girl after that comment..."
THIS IS EXACTLY WHAT AM TALKIN ABT
U DESP SAD GUYZ
TSK EFFIN TSK
ppl like u piss me off
i guess this is what u want us to say : ooh poor paki pride!! how awful, u poor thing!!men are such desperate pathetic pigs rnt they tsk tsk why dont u go and kick every guy who makes eye contact with u in the balls, cuz all men r jerks and they deserve it."
no, lal mirch, my problem is that shes stereotyping all men as being desperate and perverted with statements like U GUYS R SO DESPERATE etc. im not saying what they do is right but u shudnt label all men as being under the same category
I guess you are one of those married men who hit on high school & college girls.